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I adopted a cat last summer. Her name is Eve. A woman I met online said she had some cats she was fostering who needed loving homes, and I was really wanting to adopt a specific one she told me about. She didn't have a name and she was found abandoned. All they did was call her "kitty" or "kitty-cat." Very creative, right? Eventually I got her registered as my emotional support animal.
The woman didn't have too much info about her, other than that she was about 1 year old. She's very beautiful and energetic, and also very skittish. She's probably been through a rough time, because she can take a very long time to warm up to people, but I'm not sure what exactly she's been through. It took her until about December until I felt she was more comfortable with me. It may be because she's still young, but she just seems frightened of any noises. If I'm shifting around on the bed trying to get comfortable, even if I'm trying not to disturb her, she'll run off. She flinches and gets ready to run when you make the slightest movement around her, and always goes for underneath the bed. She doesn't play much with cat toys and just runs around a lot. I feel like I have to move very slowly and use a soft voice around her to let her know it's okay, but even that doesn't work sometimes. She isn't very cuddly though outside of sleeping, but that may be just her personality. I'm not sure. I tried to look up a lot about cats and how they communicate, how to care for them, before owning one, like their body language, etc, so I can read her pretty well I think. I'm just wanting to know what makes her so skittish, I guess, and how I can sort of alleviate that? I want her to know that I'm a safe person and she can trust me, but it's hard to convey that to her sometimes.
Also if anyone just has any other ideas in general, I'd love to know. I want to make life for her as enjoyable as I can.
The woman didn't have too much info about her, other than that she was about 1 year old. She's very beautiful and energetic, and also very skittish. She's probably been through a rough time, because she can take a very long time to warm up to people, but I'm not sure what exactly she's been through. It took her until about December until I felt she was more comfortable with me. It may be because she's still young, but she just seems frightened of any noises. If I'm shifting around on the bed trying to get comfortable, even if I'm trying not to disturb her, she'll run off. She flinches and gets ready to run when you make the slightest movement around her, and always goes for underneath the bed. She doesn't play much with cat toys and just runs around a lot. I feel like I have to move very slowly and use a soft voice around her to let her know it's okay, but even that doesn't work sometimes. She isn't very cuddly though outside of sleeping, but that may be just her personality. I'm not sure. I tried to look up a lot about cats and how they communicate, how to care for them, before owning one, like their body language, etc, so I can read her pretty well I think. I'm just wanting to know what makes her so skittish, I guess, and how I can sort of alleviate that? I want her to know that I'm a safe person and she can trust me, but it's hard to convey that to her sometimes.
Also if anyone just has any other ideas in general, I'd love to know. I want to make life for her as enjoyable as I can.