hmm, from your profile you seem to be 20? or 21 already.
Now im about to be 19 and i moved out early this year, it was a big relief for me.
I feel so bad for my mother but there is nothing i can do.
My dad isnt a horrible person, he just cannot stand my mother being an alcoholic, when she goes too far this is when he will hit her.
My parents have had happy times, but her alcohol has control of her life.
Because you are now old enough, i would suggest you to move into your own place with your sister or with just your fiance, Moving with your fiances family isnt a bad idea, you will not be intruding if they have offered them selves for you to stay, I will just say to you that in every family there is conflict, even with his mother, father, sister, ect..
To make that step is very hard, i had a person who loved me and helped me go through it, you will cry, feel sh*t, and maybe even blame your self about the situation but after 2 - 4 weeks you will feel so much better and look back to see that you have done the right choice to move away from the bad things.
I know it will definetely be hard watching your mother being dragged down by this man, i think about my mother every day to see if she is being a good woman and keeping down her alcohol. I see her once every 1 - 2 weeks and i miss her terribly, but i know as soon as i see her drunk i will be pleased that i have another home to go to...
I know its not the same situation, but my parents need to be appart, like your mother needs to be appart from somebody who is sick and needs help.
If you want to chat you can pm me, i know how scary this time can be,
All i had was TCS, ben and teufel, TCS got me by and helped me alot.
I just want you to take this advice, because i cannot stand to see another young woman be hurt by somebody. Especially from a abusive man
Now im about to be 19 and i moved out early this year, it was a big relief for me.
I feel so bad for my mother but there is nothing i can do.
My dad isnt a horrible person, he just cannot stand my mother being an alcoholic, when she goes too far this is when he will hit her.
My parents have had happy times, but her alcohol has control of her life.
Because you are now old enough, i would suggest you to move into your own place with your sister or with just your fiance, Moving with your fiances family isnt a bad idea, you will not be intruding if they have offered them selves for you to stay, I will just say to you that in every family there is conflict, even with his mother, father, sister, ect..
To make that step is very hard, i had a person who loved me and helped me go through it, you will cry, feel sh*t, and maybe even blame your self about the situation but after 2 - 4 weeks you will feel so much better and look back to see that you have done the right choice to move away from the bad things.
I know it will definetely be hard watching your mother being dragged down by this man, i think about my mother every day to see if she is being a good woman and keeping down her alcohol. I see her once every 1 - 2 weeks and i miss her terribly, but i know as soon as i see her drunk i will be pleased that i have another home to go to...
I know its not the same situation, but my parents need to be appart, like your mother needs to be appart from somebody who is sick and needs help.
If you want to chat you can pm me, i know how scary this time can be,
All i had was TCS, ben and teufel, TCS got me by and helped me alot.
I just want you to take this advice, because i cannot stand to see another young woman be hurt by somebody. Especially from a abusive man
