Oh hon. I'm so sorry your friends are so mean.
I had a miscarriage way back in 95 right after I broke up with the daddy and a co worker told me(who had a baby around the same time BTW)"now aren't you glad you miscarried?" I wanted to shove her in a fryer, but she was holding her child and there was no way I'd hurt someone so innocent for something his mother said. So Instead, I took vacation and went to Texas to dwell in my misery and came back better for it.
Heal yourself and don't let anyone tell you how to feel. You feel how you want. If they tell you mean things, then tell them how it's hurting you even after this long. Maybe they will stop.
I had a miscarriage way back in 95 right after I broke up with the daddy and a co worker told me(who had a baby around the same time BTW)"now aren't you glad you miscarried?" I wanted to shove her in a fryer, but she was holding her child and there was no way I'd hurt someone so innocent for something his mother said. So Instead, I took vacation and went to Texas to dwell in my misery and came back better for it.
Heal yourself and don't let anyone tell you how to feel. You feel how you want. If they tell you mean things, then tell them how it's hurting you even after this long. Maybe they will stop.
