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Hello, I wasn't going to put up another thread for so soon, but this question has been bothering me for a while and I think because of this blowout with my neighbor (via email), I may be put on a blacklist. What leads me to believe this is:
1) How the TNR group did not want to hear my concerns for the cats on my block no matter how legit my points were. Also, didn't want to hear that I believed my neighbor was hoarding and how I was only looking for help because we have a large post tnr colony and she may be adding cats to that number. Also, it was her husband who was crying about get the cats out of his yard. The tnr group also thought the fight with my neighbor was more and less my fault, even though this lady wrote a vicious email to me and I gave it right back to her highlighting her lies and bs behavior.
2) The people from other rescues who previously said they would help me are not returning my calls. These are other local groups who know this tnr group very well. So I guess that's that for seeking any help locally.
3) I just heard some mean gossip near my block talking about this crazy perdictment between me and that neighbor that happened last week ending with "yeah, and they said that she is mentally ill and that is why they won't help her. They cut her off when she was talking to them." It is true that the tnr group shut me down and didn't want to hear what I had to say and this is via email. I talked to them like I talk to people here. What is this crazy label about? I was nicely trying to show them we have a problem on my block, but was given no consideration. Someone is badmouthing me unfairly because people are given me dirty looks on top of what I heard earlier.
To wrap this up, I feel I am on the blacklist(Do Not Help list). While I understand a reason for blacklists because of bad people who have bad motives (like the DNA list), I do not like people who act like the "lionesses at the gate", if they don't like you, they will make sure no one likes you. I was working at putting this situation behind me, but I am really pissed off at how I am being treated. Not fair.
1) How the TNR group did not want to hear my concerns for the cats on my block no matter how legit my points were. Also, didn't want to hear that I believed my neighbor was hoarding and how I was only looking for help because we have a large post tnr colony and she may be adding cats to that number. Also, it was her husband who was crying about get the cats out of his yard. The tnr group also thought the fight with my neighbor was more and less my fault, even though this lady wrote a vicious email to me and I gave it right back to her highlighting her lies and bs behavior.
2) The people from other rescues who previously said they would help me are not returning my calls. These are other local groups who know this tnr group very well. So I guess that's that for seeking any help locally.
3) I just heard some mean gossip near my block talking about this crazy perdictment between me and that neighbor that happened last week ending with "yeah, and they said that she is mentally ill and that is why they won't help her. They cut her off when she was talking to them." It is true that the tnr group shut me down and didn't want to hear what I had to say and this is via email. I talked to them like I talk to people here. What is this crazy label about? I was nicely trying to show them we have a problem on my block, but was given no consideration. Someone is badmouthing me unfairly because people are given me dirty looks on top of what I heard earlier.
To wrap this up, I feel I am on the blacklist(Do Not Help list). While I understand a reason for blacklists because of bad people who have bad motives (like the DNA list), I do not like people who act like the "lionesses at the gate", if they don't like you, they will make sure no one likes you. I was working at putting this situation behind me, but I am really pissed off at how I am being treated. Not fair.