Originally Posted by rapunzel47
The only thing in this that I have any certainty about is that there are communication issues here that need to be resolved before they think about marriage -- job or no job, house or no house, etc. That she thought all was hunky-dory and expected a proposal before now, while he was (supposedly) silently waiting for her to demonstrate an ability to commit to something, says that they don't know enough about what the other is thinking or likely to think, and are not on the same wavelength. They need to sort that out first -- and probably some professional help with it would be in order. And then it may become crystal clear what needs to happen next.