Last night Carol told me that she no longer feels the same toward me and would like a sort of trail break up and some time away from me. Apparently things have been bad for a number of years according to the long discussions that Carol and I have had over the last 24 hours. Carol is very very unhappy and would like a period of time apart.
So far, am just hanging on in the same house, have been shopping together and things are far from good I am afraid. Carol seems to have fallen out of love with me. I find Christopher very hard work and due to this, this has become over 50% of the problem or I have.
Apparently things like the way I speak to her, way I am, I run away from an arguement of we had one etc etc have all become too much and she wishes that things ended a long long time ago.
She wants away from me and talk about being devastated - thats an understatement. We look as though we may be heading towards a divorce.
Any advice as I dont want it to end at all with my wife and son at all. Would give them both my last breath and am devastated.
Any ideas that would help me say the right things would be appreciated as I am all cried out.
Kev
Fighting to suddenly save what he thought was a great marriage
K
So far, am just hanging on in the same house, have been shopping together and things are far from good I am afraid. Carol seems to have fallen out of love with me. I find Christopher very hard work and due to this, this has become over 50% of the problem or I have.
Apparently things like the way I speak to her, way I am, I run away from an arguement of we had one etc etc have all become too much and she wishes that things ended a long long time ago.
She wants away from me and talk about being devastated - thats an understatement. We look as though we may be heading towards a divorce.
Any advice as I dont want it to end at all with my wife and son at all. Would give them both my last breath and am devastated.
Any ideas that would help me say the right things would be appreciated as I am all cried out.
Kev
Fighting to suddenly save what he thought was a great marriage
K