Ok so I quit my job I know right now its not the best decision but it was relapse or quit! My sobriety is a little more important than being able to blow money at WalMart!!!! So anyways on to the rant..My darling BF works for his dad painting and restoring 60s 70s era cars. He works on them from home and does all this work all day everyday and mostly on weekends too for 400 bucks a month!! We pay 200 in rent (6mths out of the yr but during warm time he works for the landlord to pay off rent) our electric bill is 105 a mth cell phone bill (in his brothers plan) 120 a mth sattelite 60 (going up to 80 in April but already shut off because we couldnt afford it) thats also not including needed cat food litter and dog food once a month. Needless to say we cant live off this amt of money. BFs air compressor also broke down and his dad threw a piss fit because it was on a weekend and he was painting his brothers truck for him because he was going to cut us a break on the cell bill for him painting the truck..Yea now a 1000 bucks later and a new air compressor because his dad (who makes 2000 a wk plus his wifes pay working at nuclear plants) WOULDNT pay for it or even some of it...Can you tell Im getting LIVID about this situation. The last time BF said anything to his dad about this his dad replied is there an f'in problem and BF quickly shut up. Now due to DUIs and PennDot being jerks instead of him being able to get his license back last Feb he got a letter 3 mths later stating he lost it for 5 more yrs....2 down 4 to go so being a mechanic he cant get a job without a license and cant even get a limited license. So I have to run him everywhere that he needs to go for his dads cars. Oh yea car insurance 83 bucks a mth which we are scrambling to pay because if we drive without insurance and probation catches us thats 3 mths in jail!!! NOT HAPPENING!
Im trying to convince BF to say something or do something about this because his dad quit working at the last job BF had working on busses and because his dad quit he had to quit because he had no ride back and forth to get there. So oh so generously his dad is paying him 400 a mth to do his cars. Thats fine I understand his dad puts money into these cars buying them supplies parts etc but that was HIS CHOICE to offer BF this job and to pay him and its his CHOICE to do this work and try and sell these cars...So what in the world do I do we now have to drive an hour away tomorrow to look at a car with just enough money from his dad to buy the car but hey what about gas money or anything like that..Nope nada nil we didnt get crap and I HAVE ONLY A 1/4 TANK OF GAS and the only money we have is enough to pay his brother for our phone bill (btw we cant shut off our cells because its the only phones we have and mine also doubles as our internet)
!!! Im so mad about this and I dont know what to do about it. Im not the only person mad about his dad BFs brother, step brother, SIL and his brothers GF and myself are all mad and have said something to him about it. But BF keeps defending his dad!! I dont know what to do anymore but I know that we cant live off 400 a mth and if my unemployment doesnt come thru, its up for review because I quit but hopefully the drug and alcohol abuse and unenforcement of policies is enough that I can collect because that will atleast pay our bills!!!! ARGHHHHHHHHHHH I just want to scream!
I just dont know what to do anymore...Thanks for listening to me gripe and moan about all this!! Im just feeling stressed and mad all the time with no outlet anymore so Im turning to you guys for some advice or just words to feel better!!!!!!!!!
Im trying to convince BF to say something or do something about this because his dad quit working at the last job BF had working on busses and because his dad quit he had to quit because he had no ride back and forth to get there. So oh so generously his dad is paying him 400 a mth to do his cars. Thats fine I understand his dad puts money into these cars buying them supplies parts etc but that was HIS CHOICE to offer BF this job and to pay him and its his CHOICE to do this work and try and sell these cars...So what in the world do I do we now have to drive an hour away tomorrow to look at a car with just enough money from his dad to buy the car but hey what about gas money or anything like that..Nope nada nil we didnt get crap and I HAVE ONLY A 1/4 TANK OF GAS and the only money we have is enough to pay his brother for our phone bill (btw we cant shut off our cells because its the only phones we have and mine also doubles as our internet)
I just dont know what to do anymore...Thanks for listening to me gripe and moan about all this!! Im just feeling stressed and mad all the time with no outlet anymore so Im turning to you guys for some advice or just words to feel better!!!!!!!!!