I have a 7 year old large male nuetered cat. Since he was young he has been an 'outside' cat; he only comes in to eat and sleep, and even then he sleeps at least 1/2 the time outside. We live in the city in an area of houses (not apartments) so he does his occasional hunting of rats & mice. Whenever I work outside he is 'always' at my feet, even running the lawnmower I have to tell him to move - he loves it when I visit him in 'his world'. Sounds like a nice friendly cat doesn't he. That is why I am concerned about him. He is very distant with expression towards us. He does come up & rub his face against us and 'lets' us pet him, but this is because he wants to eat. Any other time he pulls his face away when I want to scratch it or his back will arch toward the floor when he sees my hand coming toward his back for a stroke. After he has eaten he goes to the door to be let back out and to be petted is NOT on the agenda. He really hates it, especially if I push it too far; he'll turn & grab me with his teeth - not a bite, just grabbing telling me to stop bugging him.
I'm more concerned now because he has no tolerance or desire at any time now. Before he used to be 'friendly' at feeding time but not anymore.
Over the years he has had his share of minor scratches that always 'seem' to heal, but the way he is acting now, it appears that my touch hurts him; sometimes he meows when I touch him too much and he didn't do that before.
Does anyone know what is going on with my 'Farley' cat? It could be physical, he hasn't gone to the vet for... well, once since he was nuetered, but there wasn't a necessity to and there literally are no funds (I would have to borrow anything over $50). He does seem to have more odor in his breath then before, but with observation he cruches his dry food with the same gusto as before so I don't think he is feeling any pain from his teeth, although it is hard to tell for sure - a cat does have to eat I guess!
Anyway, why is Farley more distant and hates being touched?
I should mention the new cat we got 7 or 8 months ago. The cat is now about 9 months old and an exact replica of Farley (black, male). When they play they never get angry, they just wrestle for a few minutes maybe 2 times a week. Sometimes they sleep together but Farley is out most of the time. The new cat is the opposite of Farley so we are always petting him, but Farley is rarely around to see that.
Thank you so much for this opportunity, James
I'm more concerned now because he has no tolerance or desire at any time now. Before he used to be 'friendly' at feeding time but not anymore.
Over the years he has had his share of minor scratches that always 'seem' to heal, but the way he is acting now, it appears that my touch hurts him; sometimes he meows when I touch him too much and he didn't do that before.
Does anyone know what is going on with my 'Farley' cat? It could be physical, he hasn't gone to the vet for... well, once since he was nuetered, but there wasn't a necessity to and there literally are no funds (I would have to borrow anything over $50). He does seem to have more odor in his breath then before, but with observation he cruches his dry food with the same gusto as before so I don't think he is feeling any pain from his teeth, although it is hard to tell for sure - a cat does have to eat I guess!
Anyway, why is Farley more distant and hates being touched?
I should mention the new cat we got 7 or 8 months ago. The cat is now about 9 months old and an exact replica of Farley (black, male). When they play they never get angry, they just wrestle for a few minutes maybe 2 times a week. Sometimes they sleep together but Farley is out most of the time. The new cat is the opposite of Farley so we are always petting him, but Farley is rarely around to see that.
Thank you so much for this opportunity, James