A bit upset.....and my friend doesnt get it?!

[danimarie]

I would feel violated.
Your computer is a big part of your life and just anyone going and playing around without your permission is a violation.

A huge violation of trust in the girl you had feeding the cats.


I certainly would never ask the same person to help out again!!!!!!

 

[catsarebetter]

If the girlfriend didn't know about him going in, then I don't think it's her fault. She may be responsible for other things, but I can't say that I think she's accountable for thinking that your key is safe in her possession, when it's in her house, on her keyring, or what have you. If he took it without her knowing, and she had no reason to look for it, or to realize that he'd taken it.. I mean, if this guy is known for ... um.. shady behavior and she's suspicious of him, then by rights she should have hidden the key, but if he's someone she's trusted at least until this point, then why would she ever think that he'd take the key?

The other issues with not picking up the pets, etc, I think are seperate, but, perhaps I don't have enough of a picture to call it.