Great! I'm Pregnant

fwan · Sep 20, 2006

Originally Posted by OllyExtra05

Seriously: cut this loser loose, and soon!!! No one should be treated the way he's treating you, even if you have gained a little weight, that's no excuse!!!

He sounds like he has the potential to be violent, honestly, and thats scary.

Break up with him in a public place like a coffee shop or something and have a friend waiting for you in case he tries to follow you home-- I say this, sadly, from experience-- I had a guy stalk me in high school and I had to have a restraining order taken out against him. I had to change my phone #, and even contemplated trading in my car because he used to drive around looking for my car. One day he saw a girl who he thought was me (we had the same car and same hair color, I actually knew her--small town) and rushed at her in a parking lot and tried to grab her. She beat the snot out of him, and he went to jail for a whopping 12 hours.

Change your locks, change your phone # and don't go anywhere alone if this guy so much as intimates he would hurt you!!!

WAiiittttt, He isnt bad at all!
Guys he is only 18! he wouldnt do a thing to harm me.
He was being honest, even my mother asked me why i am putting on weight, even the girls in my german course are talking behind my back.

Sorry if i worded it that it sounded really horrible!

kluchetta · Sep 20, 2006

Originally Posted by fwan

WAiiittttt, He isnt bad at all!
Guys he is only 18! he wouldnt do a thing to harm me.
He was being honest, even my mother asked me why i am putting on weight, even the girls in my german course are talking behind my back.

Sorry if i worded it that it sounded really horrible!

I hate to say it, but if he's willing to "do" it, he should be willing to take responsibility if there's a mistake. And not leaving your or forcing you to abort. Of course he would be scared if you got pregnant. Maybe he's too young for that intimate of a relationship?

fwan · Sep 20, 2006

Originally Posted by kluchetta

I hate to say it, but if he's willing to "do" it, he should be willing to take responsibility if there's a mistake. And not leaving your or forcing you to abort. Of course he would be scared if you got pregnant. Maybe he's too young for that intimate of a relationship?

We have been using protection, so there is no real worry about getting pregnant.
And anyway no matter what i wouldnt have an abortion.
I don't honestly think he would leave if i was really pregnant.

kluchetta · Sep 20, 2006

Originally Posted by fwan

We have been using protection, so there is no real worry about getting pregnant.
And anyway no matter what i wouldnt have an abortion.
I don't honestly think he would leave if i was really pregnant.

We just don't want you to get hurt!

fwan · Sep 20, 2006

I know!

!

I just need to clear some things before people go crazy

oscarsmommy · Sep 21, 2006

Originally Posted by 4crazycats

I'm sure Stan would have said the samething to me if we were still together. I'm in the process of writing him a letter. We shall see how that goes.

How did it go?

4crazycats · Sep 21, 2006

Originally Posted by Oscarsmommy

How did it go?

Well I havnt heard back from him. I gave it to a friend of mine that also knows him. She said she gave it to him last night. He just read it and threw it away. So I guess that means he doesnt care. I told him in the letter if he didnt want to be in the babies life he should just not call. I said I just didnt feel like dealing with him if he was going to be rude. So I guess that means for now he doesnt want to deal with it.

kluchetta · Sep 21, 2006

Originally Posted by 4crazycats

Well I havnt heard back from him. I gave it to a friend of mine that also knows him. She said she gave it to him last night. He just read it and threw it away. So I guess that means he doesnt care. I told him in the letter if he didnt want to be in the babies life he should just not call. I said I just didnt feel like dealing with him if he was going to be rude. So I guess that means for now he doesnt want to deal with it.

Well, at least he has the sense to know that he's rude!

4crazycats · Sep 21, 2006

Originally Posted by kluchetta

Well, at least he has the sense to know that he's rude!

You know what? Thats exactly what John (BF) said. I think Stan finally found out he could only push me so far.

crittermom · Sep 21, 2006

I think you and the baby are MUCH better off with ex OUT of the picture!!!Now you,John and the baby can go on with your "family" when the baby comes.

4crazycats · Sep 21, 2006

Originally Posted by crittermom

I think you and the baby are MUCH better off with ex OUT of the picture!!!Now you,John and the baby can go on with your "family" when the baby comes.

Thanks. Your probably right. But I gigured he had the right to know. He can do what he wants with the knowledge. I'm going in for my first ultrasound tomorow. I really wish I didnt have to go. That Poor GHeery could get the ultrasound instead. It's really tough on me to see him sick. My poor baby. I'm actually getting excited a little bit.

I'll post as soon as I get home hopefully some pics of the sonogram. Maybe I will be able to tell if its a boy or girl.

jenny82 · Sep 22, 2006

Originally Posted by crittermom

I think you and the baby are MUCH better off with ex OUT of the picture!!!Now you,John and the baby can go on with your "family" when the baby comes.

I agree! Good luck with your ultrasound!

kluchetta · Sep 22, 2006

Originally Posted by 4crazycats

Thanks. Your probably right. But I gigured he had the right to know. He can do what he wants with the knowledge. I'm going in for my first ultrasound tomorow. I really wish I didnt have to go. That Poor GHeery could get the ultrasound instead. It's really tough on me to see him sick. My poor baby. I'm actually getting excited a little bit.

I'll post as soon as I get home hopefully some pics of the sonogram. Maybe I will be able to tell if its a boy or girl.

OK, now, make SURE to find out the RATE of the heart beat and I will tell you if it's a boy or girl!

starryeyedtiger · Sep 22, 2006

I hope everything goes well tomorrow!!!! Goodluck sweetie!

crittermom · Sep 22, 2006

OK, now, make SURE to find out the RATE of the heart beat and I will tell you if it's a boy or girl!

I was the same way.UNTIL my youngest decided that he wanted to trick me.
Also,if you have ALOT of morning sickness in MY CASE it's a girl.If you look as if you're carrying a basketball,it's a girl.If your butt spreads out, then it's a boy.
My sisters used drano in the toilet AFTER they peed(pee still in the toilet) to see what they would have.It only worked on one of them.LOL!!!

icklemiss21 · Sep 22, 2006

Morning sickness in my family is a sure sign of a boy

ilovesiamese · Sep 22, 2006

Originally Posted by icklemiss21

Morning sickness in my family is a sure sign of a boy

Hehe same with mine!

I hope all goes well for you at the ultrasound!

loubelia · Sep 22, 2006

Originally Posted by 4crazycats

Wow that's very close together in age. Whew. He was only a week old when you got pregnant. You guys didnt waste any time. I thought you are supposed to wait like 6 weeks after you give birth?

Well, when I went in for my six week check-up after giving birth, the ObGyn asked if I wanted the pill or not? Later I found it she asked me because it is really easy to get pregnant again, just after giving birth.
As far as the toxio.....please have your significant other or any person willing to do it for you. They say that changing the litter can cause blindness in the unborn child and other risky things for the child.
I support you and feel for you. Take care of yourself. Oh...also, have you considered adoption? My sister had her first child when she was 20, and ended up giving him up to his paternal grandparents and they later on adopted him. I am adopted and so are my 2 sisters, there are milliions of people out there and want a baby but can't get pregnant. Think of that possibility....thank goodness my birthparents gave me and my adopted parents the option.
P.S. I had extreme morning sickness and I had a girl.

kluchetta · Sep 23, 2006

I caused extreme morning sickness...LOL. I was sick exactly once with each child, and I have one of each...

But it was the nurses that told me about the heart rate thing...I tell ya, it works.

4crazycats · Sep 24, 2006

Originally Posted by kluchetta

OK, now, make SURE to find out the RATE of the heart beat and I will tell you if it's a boy or girl!

Oh Man! I wish I had jumped on before I went in. I dont remember what the heartbeat was. Does that make me a bad mommy.

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