Well, done some more research......none of it looks good. This is the 74th day. I REALLY am at my wit's end.
She has no symptoms of anything. She is happy, eating, doing a lot more sleeping, playing, very vocal (not heat screaming), loving, I just don't know. I guess I'm not the first one to be snookered by a cat.
I am going to hold on until Friday. I will call my vet tomorrow (I really don't have the $100 to spend especially if there is no need) and ask her opinion and possibly make an appointment for a spaying, and see what happens. I am so dead set against killing kits, but if there are no kits, then she needs a D&C like no one else I have ever seen.
I am so depressed. This hurts more than my divorce did.