I mentioned that she's getting really naughty in a previous post, and I've gone back to work now, so she doesn't have that company during the day.
Last night she just spent all night trying to play with me while I was trying to sleep. I played with her before bed, and gave her lots of cuddles and attention, but she needs more stimulation. I went to a friends place for dinner last night, so only saw her for a bit between work and going out, then came home, played with her and went to bed. I would hate to think she's going to do this every time we have something on in the evenings. It's 5:20am and I can't get back to sleep now because I'm stressing about the situation. I tried ignoring her, but she plays with the sheets, and sticks her paws under the bed, and sticks her claws out. I trim her claws, but there's always one sharp enough to hurt! I'm going to try the Soft Paws, but it won't fix the underlying problem.
My husband is really against getting a second cat. I have no idea why, he can't give me any good reasons, but he refuses to get a second cat. I'm going to try and change his mind, but I don't want to be begging him for another cat until he can't stand my begging any more - that's not healthy in a relationship!
When we were first fostering Stumpy, she was really sweet and affectionate which is why I fell in love with her, but since she's healed from her accident she has just gotten more and more playful. I still adore her, but if I had have had any idea she was going to turn into such a playful cat who needed this much stimulation, I wouldn't have adopted her. She needs more than I can give her on my own.
She has heaps of toys, heaps of interactive toys to play with on her own, but it's not enough. She needs more.
I know it's horrible to get a cat than after such a short time be considering giving her back, but is it better than having her bored, attacking us all night, and having us growing to resent her???
I don't know.... I'm so confused and upset by it all... I'm just going to have to give it time and hope she get used to us being out during the day and settles down.
Last night she just spent all night trying to play with me while I was trying to sleep. I played with her before bed, and gave her lots of cuddles and attention, but she needs more stimulation. I went to a friends place for dinner last night, so only saw her for a bit between work and going out, then came home, played with her and went to bed. I would hate to think she's going to do this every time we have something on in the evenings. It's 5:20am and I can't get back to sleep now because I'm stressing about the situation. I tried ignoring her, but she plays with the sheets, and sticks her paws under the bed, and sticks her claws out. I trim her claws, but there's always one sharp enough to hurt! I'm going to try the Soft Paws, but it won't fix the underlying problem.
My husband is really against getting a second cat. I have no idea why, he can't give me any good reasons, but he refuses to get a second cat. I'm going to try and change his mind, but I don't want to be begging him for another cat until he can't stand my begging any more - that's not healthy in a relationship!
When we were first fostering Stumpy, she was really sweet and affectionate which is why I fell in love with her, but since she's healed from her accident she has just gotten more and more playful. I still adore her, but if I had have had any idea she was going to turn into such a playful cat who needed this much stimulation, I wouldn't have adopted her. She needs more than I can give her on my own.
She has heaps of toys, heaps of interactive toys to play with on her own, but it's not enough. She needs more.
I know it's horrible to get a cat than after such a short time be considering giving her back, but is it better than having her bored, attacking us all night, and having us growing to resent her???
I don't know.... I'm so confused and upset by it all... I'm just going to have to give it time and hope she get used to us being out during the day and settles down.