We've had five cats for almost 10 years. Two were older when we adopted them, one we got as a kitten to keep the two older cats from fighting, one adopted us and one was a stray my husband found in a parking lot. The two older cats adopted the kitten as their own and became "Mommy and Daddy" to him. The cat that adopted us became a close buddy to him. In the past six months both Mommy and Daddy passed away. Nermal became extra close to his "brother" after that. We also adopted a new cat (1 year old) in the hopes that she would be a pal for Nermal. Although we were told she loved to cuddle and groom the other cats, she really only cuddled and groomed Duffy. But Duffy died suddenly last week of aspiration pneumonia.
Now Nermal seems completely lost and depressed. He's sucking up to my kids and he used to hate them. He won't let me cuddle him and at times shies away from my touch. I hate to see him like this. Any ideas?
We have considered getting a small kitten for Nermal to adopt as his own. Don't know if this will work. Also not sure if we should do this now to shorted the adjustment period or wait until he stops greiving - but we're not sure that multiple adjustment period would be a good thing either. We sure could use some ideas.
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We have considered getting a small kitten for Nermal to adopt as his own. Don't know if this will work. Also not sure if we should do this now to shorted the adjustment period or wait until he stops greiving - but we're not sure that multiple adjustment period would be a good thing either. We sure could use some ideas.
IMB