Alright. This is hard for me talk about because it's been irking me for quite some time. But she's almost about to have this child, and something has to be done, and I dont know what to do. Hopefully some of you can help me figure it out.
Or shall I be even worried about it?
My neighbor that lives behind me, is pregnant. I work with her too. She does not take care of herself or her home. She's due in July, and has no room for a baby. I've been in her house, and it smells horrid. There is junk all over the floors, and the litter box (she has two cats, and that's a WHOLE other story!) does not appear to ever be changed. You can smell her house from outside her door.
She smells very bad too. It's very hard to work with her because if you get within a foot of her, you actually get sick. She's been in trouble for not "properly grooming" herself at work too. They are always behind on rent. They do not have a car, or any baby items yet. It's almost 90 degrees outside, and they dont even have a fan. Thier phone has been disconnected a few times. She drinks Mountain Dew like it's water. Which is no good for baby. She pops tylenol like candy for headaches.
I couldnt imagine bringing a child into this home. I am so scared about it. She cant take care of herself, or her cats. How in THE WORLD is she going to take care of this baby?! I took her to our local state health insurance place so that she could get some help with money for Dr's Appts, and having this child. She's 7 months along, and has only been to the doctors three times.
She's always calling me for rides, and money, and asking if she can have all of my old baby stuff. She's asked if she can have an A/C of ours.
I just dont know what to do. I cant even take her anywhere now, because when she's in my car, I actually have to roll down all windows because of the smell. It's terrible.
I KNOW for a fact, I will be the one waking up in the middle of the night because she needs a ride to the hospital because she's in labor. I'm prepared for that one though.
So, Do you think I should call SOMEONE with authority to go check out her house and her living styles before she has this child? I wouldnt want her to know I did that though. But really, somethings gotta be done.
Sorry so long, I just gotta get this off of me for a minute, and let someone else try & figure it out.
Thanks guys...Love you all!
Or shall I be even worried about it?
My neighbor that lives behind me, is pregnant. I work with her too. She does not take care of herself or her home. She's due in July, and has no room for a baby. I've been in her house, and it smells horrid. There is junk all over the floors, and the litter box (she has two cats, and that's a WHOLE other story!) does not appear to ever be changed. You can smell her house from outside her door.
She smells very bad too. It's very hard to work with her because if you get within a foot of her, you actually get sick. She's been in trouble for not "properly grooming" herself at work too. They are always behind on rent. They do not have a car, or any baby items yet. It's almost 90 degrees outside, and they dont even have a fan. Thier phone has been disconnected a few times. She drinks Mountain Dew like it's water. Which is no good for baby. She pops tylenol like candy for headaches.
I couldnt imagine bringing a child into this home. I am so scared about it. She cant take care of herself, or her cats. How in THE WORLD is she going to take care of this baby?! I took her to our local state health insurance place so that she could get some help with money for Dr's Appts, and having this child. She's 7 months along, and has only been to the doctors three times.
She's always calling me for rides, and money, and asking if she can have all of my old baby stuff. She's asked if she can have an A/C of ours.
I just dont know what to do. I cant even take her anywhere now, because when she's in my car, I actually have to roll down all windows because of the smell. It's terrible.
I KNOW for a fact, I will be the one waking up in the middle of the night because she needs a ride to the hospital because she's in labor. I'm prepared for that one though.
So, Do you think I should call SOMEONE with authority to go check out her house and her living styles before she has this child? I wouldnt want her to know I did that though. But really, somethings gotta be done.
Sorry so long, I just gotta get this off of me for a minute, and let someone else try & figure it out.
Thanks guys...Love you all!