How Do I Talk To Boys?

Ok, theres this boy I like, I am in the same 4-H club as him, but I have never talked to him. It makes me really mad, cuz I have always been able to talk to guys before. Also, like, I did talk to this one guy, and I couldnt find the right thing to say obviously, because he kept losing interest in what I had to say. Help me out please!!!

Just beeeeeeeeeee yourself. If you act like somebody else to get his interest, then he's not for you. You need to find someone who enjoys being with the real you, not an imitation.

Ok, thanx! Your right, and I am myself, so, I'll just, I dunno, be me. lol! Thanks.

I am 30 and am trying to figure it all out still

Originally Posted by momof3rugratz

I am 30 and am trying to figure it all out still

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Me too

hey, I keep thinking by the time I'm 30, I will have figured it all out..maybe not..Eeeeeeeek!

lol! Thats ok! I always just ask (If I get up enough courage to talk to them) Fave band? Fave show? Stuff like that. I try to find common interests.

Me and hubby where grad school sweetheart. After 15 years I never had to talk to another. No one even looked cute while we where together. Hubby was cute and sweet Bald and loving... Now I am in the world alone. It sucks. My kids are like go for it mom I am not sure how to.

Talking to guys is easy, it's talking to girls that's impossible
Seriously, there isn't much more you can do than be yourself... if he's into you, it'll takeoff from there.

Good luck!

Ok, thanx!

LOL this is way to much everyone. I can not beleive I am asking advise at 30 LOL. The girl who started the thread will have to update us on how it goes...

I dont think anyone knows how to do it when they have butterflies in their belly!

Originally Posted by fwan

I dont think anyone knows how to do it when they have butterflies in their belly!

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Yup ,that's what I was thinking..It seems if I am near a hottie, I turn into some awkward 14 year old..Usually I am calm and composed unless there is a hot guy nearby..then I'm a bumbling idiot.

FOr me I still love hubby so am sure that makes it harder. Gerarde how old are you. Maybe that would help.

Honestly I think the worst part is thinking/worrying about it. Just try to be confident...if he doesn't like you it is his loss! Tell yourself it's no big deal.

I wonder if she is really young. Not sure what advice is ok to give because of the age.

Originally Posted by momof3rugratz

I wonder if she is really young. Not sure what advice is ok to give because of the age.

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I think she's against telling e-people her age...
Let's just assume 13!

Ya, I am NOT saying my age, but ya, ABOUT 13. Somewhere around there.

Originally Posted by Cougar

I think she's against telling e-people her age...
Let's just assume 13!

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True I just don't know what to ay to a 13 yr old. I think it is young sorry.

Well, I know that you've heard this already, but you should definitely start out on the right track while young, be who ever you naturally are. Do not try to play yourself up in a different light to make him attracted to you. You want him to like you for exactly who you are, and if he doesnt than that is just as well, it will clear your vision to see the other amazing boys who WILL!! Best of luck!

Thanx! The guy I wanna talk to seems nice, and he seems REALLY hyper! lol! He seems alot like me, but I dont know 4 sure, I will talk 2 him when I see him Friday at 4-h.