I feel miserable

Ok yesterday was my fiance's birthday. She currently lives in Richmond. Well yesterday with the whole working with the animal rescue and it being so hot and miserable here, my mind was not working very well and I could have sworn it was the 14th instead of the 15th. Well I'm talking to her on AIM and she says "Well today is not much of a birthday." and in my mind I'm thinking. 'oh crap'. Its not that I forgot her birthday, its just that i forgot yesterday was the 15th. I was completely convinced it was the 14th until I checked the calander. Well I messaged her back (she was on her phone taking text messages this whole time.) and told her I was sorry and that I had thought her birthday was actually today. But all last night after she said "Well today is not much of a birthday" she didn't respond to any of my messages. It could be that my messages were not going through or she didn't have her phone with her, but I'm still worried that she is mad at me.

Oh dear. I have to say I would be pretty upset if Mark got my birthday wrong. I'm sure it was a genuine mistake but you will probably have to do a lot of making up to her.
I'm sure she will come round eventually. Sorry you're feeling miserable **hugs**

It was an honest mistake. I know she loves you a lot. It will be okay. I'm sending good vibes.

That could happen to anyone. I wouldn't be mad, at least not very.

Oh that is sad, I am sorry you are feeling so bad. Do something fantastic for her and she'll come around.

Well, I think you're in some for some serious making-up, but if you really convince her that you thought it was the wrong day, you should be ok. But I would be prepared to go a bit overboard on the romantic gifts!

How about sending her flowers? Or a funny book (from Amazon, for example)?

Well you didn't forget, you just got so busy your time sense was off...that should mean something to her, once she calms down.

I agree with flowers, I agree with doing something unexpected as her late birthday gift. I'd get on that phone fast though, and get through to her so she can hear your sincerity, and your love. I am sure she's really missing you!

is this a long distance relationship?
if not why dont you go to her place and bring her a box of chocolates and flowers and a teddy

I want a bf!

Originally Posted by fwan

is this a long distance relationship?
if not why dont you go to her place and bring her a box of chocolates and flowers and a teddy

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Great idea! But if that is out of the question, definately get through to her as soon as possible (did you try calling last night, rather than sending messages?). Send her flowers, candy, teddy bear, etc. wherever she is. Like everyone said, if you love eachother you'll get through it! Good luck