I, too, have no man in my life and feel that this may be the path God has choosen for me. I have wrestled with this very issue.
I believe that what God has created is beautiful in all its many forms and admire the views as well as anyone else. But I know when it goes over the line and I feel guilty enough to repent that I need to have my mind on more important things.
I have to say though that over the years that God has lifted a lot of this burden from me and it isn't the battle that it once was. I don't know how old you are or how long you have been following this path, but time is a great balancer.
A few fine examples of God's work: Sean Connery, Harrision Ford, Gavan O'Herlihy, Orlando Bloom, Vladimir Kulich, etc.