Has anyone ever had a cat that NEEDED to be pet while eating? It's my parents cat, 5 year old Amelia (female orange tabby), and she won't eat unless someone is petting her...my parents say she gets very "excited" if you keep petting her...now, she has lived with several other cats that she hasn't gotten along with - at first we thought she needed to be pet for assurance she was "safe" with her back turned to everything, but this behaviour has continued for over a year......any ideas?