JoJo was really cautious and shy with me for months. Neither of them like strangers very much. But Jack will come out and approach a person after a little while, if that person is calm. JoJo stays in hiding. But for months she wouldn't even let me near her, even though she let me pet her at the shelter. Now, after so much time, she's my lapcat, snugglebug, bedcat... you name it.
She's Alpha Cat in this house, so she gets the lap first. I actually just had to literally shove her off my legs, because they were getting numb from being in an awkward position. After I shifted my weight and she'd slunk off to the kitty-cubes, Jack came out of the bedroom and curled up on my lap. Of course, then I coughed and he bolted. He's skittish with sudden noises. I need to get more Feliway. I saw it a couple weeks ago and it didn't make sense to me. The initial plug-in kit was on sale for 25... and the refill was regular price for 25. If you put the starter kit on sale, put the refills on sale too... I almost bought a refill, but looked at how much was in my cart
and opted not to. Maybe next time...
Almost feeding time for the fuzzy moochers of the house... better go put my shackles on and be the slave-human that I am.