My Fiance suffers from a chronic illness M.E/CFS at present she is totally bedbound and in extreme pain. We rent our house and its quite a small old miners cottage, but we love it and theres enough room for us and our cats. Anyway with my Fiancee being this ill our house is quite impractable. It was suggested by one of our health professionals that maybe we should move. We explained that it was too difficult. For one we dont have the money and to find a sutable house that will except 4 cats takes a long time.
Anyway my Fiancee was speaking to her mother on the phone yesterday. i went upstairs afterwards to find my Fiancee in tears. Apparently my Mother in law had said we should get rid of some of our cats so we could move. Apparently she kept going on about it even though she could here my Fiancee crying. This isnt the first horrible thing shes said about our cats before. She always says snide comments.
I'm so angry not just for upsetting my Fiancee but even suggesting getting rid of our cats. Our cats are our children,How could you choose which one to get rid of. Would she get rid of any of her children just so she could move easier. STUPID INSENSITVE WOMAN. Why do people assume owning a cat is like owning a teddy bear. We have taken the responsibility to look after and care for our cats, we do not take that likely. You do not get rid of one just because it may be inconvenient. We love all our cats to pieces and would never get rid of any of them, when this woman understands that it will make our relationship with her easier.
A very Angry
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Anyway my Fiancee was speaking to her mother on the phone yesterday. i went upstairs afterwards to find my Fiancee in tears. Apparently my Mother in law had said we should get rid of some of our cats so we could move. Apparently she kept going on about it even though she could here my Fiancee crying. This isnt the first horrible thing shes said about our cats before. She always says snide comments.
I'm so angry not just for upsetting my Fiancee but even suggesting getting rid of our cats. Our cats are our children,How could you choose which one to get rid of. Would she get rid of any of her children just so she could move easier. STUPID INSENSITVE WOMAN. Why do people assume owning a cat is like owning a teddy bear. We have taken the responsibility to look after and care for our cats, we do not take that likely. You do not get rid of one just because it may be inconvenient. We love all our cats to pieces and would never get rid of any of them, when this woman understands that it will make our relationship with her easier.
A very Angry
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