Okay all, I need help and suggestions. No flaming
please, and please be aware I already know the
dangers of letting cats roam - all to well I might
add. In this case I have no options till my eldest
cats are gone.
I am a level headed and
generally considerate neighbor as a rule. My cat
has been causing problems it seems, when I'm away
and she's at play. Only one neighbor has complained...but...
Background: Lexi was found as a stray by me1 year ago.
Has always been indoor outdoor while with me. Has a cat flap,
did not always go out side at night, has changed
lately however, and become more of "outdoor" cat.
I always bring her in at 11 pm at night not later than 12
when I go to bed! My neighbors must think I'm
nuts I go out calling for her at night.
She stays in then till early am I believe.
Here's the scoop: neighbor says she's taken to sitting
on her precious car (which is an expensive Mercedes),
is afraid she'll scratch it, that she has gotten
into her recycling on her deck (via fence I assume?)
and that she has 2x come in her house
when the door is open and Lexi was
watching her unload (there is no screen door).
I have been politely responsive via email and told
her tonight after work I'd drop by and chat. We
were having a get together for the hood, so
I wasn't sure after the blast she leveled if I
was invited -
I do have some solutions
in mind - but want suggestions for keeping her off car
and out of neighbors deck.../fence... other than those below:
(Neighbor also hates cat pooping outside, but
let's get real, cats bury their "droppings" and
aren't leaving them in flangrent on the sidewalks!!)
Still, if she wants to fix that too so the cat
doesn't go in her yard.. I can deal.
Dogs poop everywhere
too.. and I don't complain!!
Here's my solutions so far: since Lexi is young and seriously
stresses out my my senior male cat (who is dying we think)
she MUST remain indoor/outdoor - else I cannot keep her.
There is already stress on him, and this makes it much worse.
So: for her deck / fence and car: CatStopper product.
http://www.critter-repellent.com/ supposed to work well.
For the deck recycle bin and Garbage - bins with lids
Also for the car: cat repellent stuff to sprinkle round car
(bob cat urine etc. I guess!!)
I also informed her to yell at or shake jar of coins at
her when she tries going into the house.
When Indra travels, I am going to suggest we cover her car...
I think the situation requires action on both parts - she
may WANT me to keep cat in, but it isn't going to happen.
And if she wants to solve problem she will work with me.
Some effort on her part is required.
Am I being unreasonable?
Thanks all for input and good suggestions on how to break
her of this bad habit. For the record (she hasn't gone on
MY car...) Indra's is often only one left in the front
parking area during the day... (wish Indra would get
a job away from home - then the car would be gone -
no more problem!!)
please, and please be aware I already know the
dangers of letting cats roam - all to well I might
add. In this case I have no options till my eldest
cats are gone.
I am a level headed and
generally considerate neighbor as a rule. My cat
has been causing problems it seems, when I'm away
and she's at play. Only one neighbor has complained...but...
Background: Lexi was found as a stray by me1 year ago.
Has always been indoor outdoor while with me. Has a cat flap,
did not always go out side at night, has changed
lately however, and become more of "outdoor" cat.
I always bring her in at 11 pm at night not later than 12
when I go to bed! My neighbors must think I'm
nuts I go out calling for her at night.
She stays in then till early am I believe.
Here's the scoop: neighbor says she's taken to sitting
on her precious car (which is an expensive Mercedes),
is afraid she'll scratch it, that she has gotten
into her recycling on her deck (via fence I assume?)
and that she has 2x come in her house
when the door is open and Lexi was
watching her unload (there is no screen door).
I have been politely responsive via email and told
her tonight after work I'd drop by and chat. We
were having a get together for the hood, so
I wasn't sure after the blast she leveled if I
was invited -
I do have some solutions
in mind - but want suggestions for keeping her off car
and out of neighbors deck.../fence... other than those below:
(Neighbor also hates cat pooping outside, but
let's get real, cats bury their "droppings" and
aren't leaving them in flangrent on the sidewalks!!)
Still, if she wants to fix that too so the cat
doesn't go in her yard.. I can deal.
Dogs poop everywhere
too.. and I don't complain!!
Here's my solutions so far: since Lexi is young and seriously
stresses out my my senior male cat (who is dying we think)
she MUST remain indoor/outdoor - else I cannot keep her.
There is already stress on him, and this makes it much worse.
So: for her deck / fence and car: CatStopper product.
http://www.critter-repellent.com/ supposed to work well.
For the deck recycle bin and Garbage - bins with lids
Also for the car: cat repellent stuff to sprinkle round car
(bob cat urine etc. I guess!!)
I also informed her to yell at or shake jar of coins at
her when she tries going into the house.
When Indra travels, I am going to suggest we cover her car...
I think the situation requires action on both parts - she
may WANT me to keep cat in, but it isn't going to happen.
And if she wants to solve problem she will work with me.
Some effort on her part is required.
Am I being unreasonable?
Thanks all for input and good suggestions on how to break
her of this bad habit. For the record (she hasn't gone on
MY car...) Indra's is often only one left in the front
parking area during the day... (wish Indra would get
a job away from home - then the car would be gone -
no more problem!!)