I'll toot my own horn: I am a nice person. I treat everyone politely, joke around and generally show I care.
Why do some men think this means that I am hot for their bod??! This has happened to me before and I am afraid it is going to happen more often.
I can't stop being nice - it is me. I talk about my husband. I am "pleasantly plump". I wear no makeup, and my dress is "frumpy" I am changing the last two. I have been waiting to lose weight to overall my warddrobe - I finally admited that it wasn't going to happen so I am redoing it and someone is teaching me how to put on makeup (I work for a makeup company for goodness sakes!) When I showed up last week in a very nice dress (flowy hippy sorta look - so me) I get asked "You have a boyfriend?" =I show up with a "new" (just not worn it in long time) ring ("Boyfriend get you that?")
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How can I communicate that, no - I am definately not interested, I am happily married. I am just nice - and I am so sorry women in your life are not nice to you - but you are not all that and a bag of chips?
Why do some men think this means that I am hot for their bod??! This has happened to me before and I am afraid it is going to happen more often.
I can't stop being nice - it is me. I talk about my husband. I am "pleasantly plump". I wear no makeup, and my dress is "frumpy" I am changing the last two. I have been waiting to lose weight to overall my warddrobe - I finally admited that it wasn't going to happen so I am redoing it and someone is teaching me how to put on makeup (I work for a makeup company for goodness sakes!) When I showed up last week in a very nice dress (flowy hippy sorta look - so me) I get asked "You have a boyfriend?" =I show up with a "new" (just not worn it in long time) ring ("Boyfriend get you that?")
<<off soapbox >>
How can I communicate that, no - I am definately not interested, I am happily married. I am just nice - and I am so sorry women in your life are not nice to you - but you are not all that and a bag of chips?