To make a very, very long story short, I'm looking for an old friend from my middle school years that I've lost track of. I'm trying to find some way online to find a phone # or address for him and every site wants like $30 just to give me his address. The problem is, it appears as though he's been moving a lot in the past few years according to phone book records. Compounding the problem is the fact that his father AND one of his cousins have the same first name and middle initial as he does. I've tried calling some of the #s I've found but nearly all are disconnected or have been re-asssigned to someone else.
His family is an undependable source of information, as they are just as transient as he is and appear to have moved to OK...at least his dad has. I can't seem to find his mom.
It's possible my friend might not be alive anymore. It's also equally possible that he's just fine, and doing well.
Other than hire a private detective to hunt him down, are there any dependable ways to try and find his contact information that don't involve plunking down $30 repeatedly for #s that turn out not to be his.
I've been looking for him for 3 years....the last time I saw him was in 2000 in my hometown. I had his number then but it wasn't safe for me to hang onto it...I know that sounds incredibly sketchy, but he's involved in stuff that I've been trying to distance myself from for the past 10 years. When I ran into him in '00 I wasn't ready to deal with him and all the baggage that comes along with it.
I'm at a point in my life right now where I want to gain some closure on the earlier periods of my life. I just want to know if he's okay, see where he's living, what he's doing.
If anyone has any advice on this type of thing...let me know
I know, it sounds weird, but, if I were to give you the past 10 years of back story you'd understand!
His family is an undependable source of information, as they are just as transient as he is and appear to have moved to OK...at least his dad has. I can't seem to find his mom.
It's possible my friend might not be alive anymore. It's also equally possible that he's just fine, and doing well.
Other than hire a private detective to hunt him down, are there any dependable ways to try and find his contact information that don't involve plunking down $30 repeatedly for #s that turn out not to be his.
I've been looking for him for 3 years....the last time I saw him was in 2000 in my hometown. I had his number then but it wasn't safe for me to hang onto it...I know that sounds incredibly sketchy, but he's involved in stuff that I've been trying to distance myself from for the past 10 years. When I ran into him in '00 I wasn't ready to deal with him and all the baggage that comes along with it.
I'm at a point in my life right now where I want to gain some closure on the earlier periods of my life. I just want to know if he's okay, see where he's living, what he's doing.
If anyone has any advice on this type of thing...let me know
I know, it sounds weird, but, if I were to give you the past 10 years of back story you'd understand!