Feeling alone......

Well I did get out of a relationship with a boy awhile back and it felt GREAT to finally get him out of my life..but now I'm feeling extremely alone and yeah I'm starting to self-pity myself again and I just straight up hate this feeling and don't know what to do.........any advice?

My only advice really....is get out of your teens.....

Teenage years are awful....sorry kid.......

You have less time to self-loath and hate yourself when your paying bills, rent...ect.......

I did the same thing when i was a teenager...and so did everyone here.....

All I can say is it definitly gets better....things that were such crisis' when we were 17, kinda make us laugh when we're 24......

Hang in there....ok

Keep posting on TCS!!!! Too many people here for you ever to be lonely!!!!

I was just gonna add that too.....were all here for ya....

Originally Posted by Lil_Axl_Gurl

Well I did get out of a relationship with a boy awhile back and it felt GREAT to finally get him out of my life..but now I'm feeling extremely alone and yeah I'm starting to self-pity myself again and I just straight up hate this feeling and don't know what to do.........any advice?

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Don't worry, whether you are a teen or older, almost everybody feels that way after a break up, no matter how healthy a break it up it is. After all, it's a change from what you used to know, and that takes time to adjust to. The only advice is to realize it's a temporary feeling you are experiencing and try to distract yourself by hanging out with your friends or posting on TCS or doing something else that tends to be an automatic (and legal!!!) mood lifter for you! Good luck. I've been there...

I remember being in High School......14 years ago. It does get better, just hang in there. We are all here for you!

My g-friend & I used to play "The Best" game and talk about which former b-friends were the best looking, most considerate, the best date, the best kiss, the best dancer, the best one to take to meet the family, etc. It would cheer us up immensely because it seemed that no one guy ever made it to being the best in at least 2 categories. We'd also go through the "who thought he wasn't good enough, and how they let me know" list. My all time fave was my story about a guy named Dean, who was too-city for me, and he was soooo fastidious - my mare rubbed her boogers all over his face & shirt; he was so grossed out, he made such a fuss that my mom & daughters came running out to see if he was hurt!! My mare was such a good judge of character!

When i went through a bad break up...i kept myself busy...whether it was a new hobby, rearranging my place, volunteer work or just hanging with friends. It will get easier with time and one day you'll wake up and feel much better. Your smart to get out early if you know its not working. I waited till it was too far into it! I learned so much about myself, i really grew during that time period. My friend and i made a deal that every time i was lonely and wanted to call him that i'd call her first...i'd always see the light after the phone call!! But right now depend on your friends and live for yourself!

Pet your kitty!

Originally Posted by Rockcat

Pet your kitty!

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He's PMSing

I'm at school right now so if I get caught I'm gonna have to just put up what I've got.

Basically is what happened is I was dating this guy who seemed to be really obsessive over me, and I just mainly felt really smothered but really just kind of blew that off. Well then we broke up for awhile and I went with this other guy for a short time until the first one was able to just pull me back (and I am so mad at myself for leaving the other guy). Well when school started back up I wasn't able to call him as often as I was before, and I guess that really upsetted him. What I then started to really notice was that he was trying to take control of my life and I can't have someone like that. Especially if most of my friends are guys, I can already see the jealousy that would start up. So I gave him a call and broke it off..first thing he did was try to guilt trip me.....then he got reeeeeally mad when it didn't work. Well I tried to get back with the other guy because he was a really great guy and I don't know why I ever left him. But he's already with someone and yeah I miss him soooo much, we still talk but I still feel "away" from him.

Sounds like your far more better off anyways! Consider him a lesson learned!!

Originally Posted by yasmine

Sounds like your far more better off anyways! Consider him a lesson learned!!

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Tell me about it! I know I'm waay better off without him..I just don't want to go crawling back to him so I made this thread to read these comments everytime I feel like giving him a call. Cuz I definitly dont' want to make THAT mistake..

You think thats bad! Im a guy and im going to be 20 in November, yet I have NEVER been kissed by a girl or ever had a girlfriend!

Originally Posted by keith p

You think thats bad! Im a guy and im going to be 20 in November, yet I have NEVER been kissed by a girl or ever had a girlfriend!

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u jokin'?

No why would I joke like that!

TCS is here only for you! ...don´t feel alone! and your lovely kitty wants lots and lots of hugs! ....
Cheers!

FRIENDS, FRIENDS, FRIENDS!!!! 'Nuff said......

You have your TCS friends!