Fran forget about his mum being on your side or Bens side, just concentrate on you chick!, but i really think the two of you need to call it a day for sure.
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you will not believe what i did today
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Yep...it's time to kick this one to the curb!!
I'm sorry you're having to go through all this and that he's being such a weenie! I know it's got to be tough...hang in there.
I'm sorry you're having to go through all this and that he's being such a weenie! I know it's got to be tough...hang in there.
Yep, time to move on. Cut your losses if you have to, that is part of life sometimes. It sucks, but it happens. Save your own sanity. Life is way too short for stuff like that.
Years or even months later, you'll be able to look back & wonder what you ever saw in the guy.
Years or even months later, you'll be able to look back & wonder what you ever saw in the guy.
If you have the receipt for the computer or anything else that you think he might try to "claim" make sure you put it in a safe place for later use. I don't know who is on the lease to your apartment but make sure he doesn't screw you for rent to! Lose him- he sounds like an abuser!
Fran,
It is too bad that he can not just be a man and deal with all of this the right way. Thank goodness you are finding all this out now. You deserve better!
It is too bad that he can not just be a man and deal with all of this the right way. Thank goodness you are finding all this out now. You deserve better!
That makes no difference. If I lend someone my car for the day, doesn't mean they have the right to keep it, and the police would treat it as theft if reported.
sounds like this ben should be giver waster of the year award,your best off without him,and he will come craling back and u can have the satisfaction of telling him to go forth and mulitply him self (and if anyone dont know the meaning of that one pm me) you sound like a good person,enjoy your new life and be happy in the future, your better than him.
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We're on your side too!
Fran...when you make out your report with the police and go to court, watch how you phrase things.
Secondly, (and I'm surprised no one else brought this up) a nice man helps you off the ground, and you jump on his motorcycle to chase your ex down? How did you know this man was going to remain nice to you? He could have taken you down a back alley and become an ax murderer! PLEASE! be more careful. I realize you were caught up in the moment, but you're important to the people in your life, not to mention to the people of this forum!
Hugs and support to you in this time. Ex-boyfriends can be such asses sometimes.
If you GAVE him the laptop, he doesn't have to return it. If you LENT it to him, then its still yours to keep.
Secondly, (and I'm surprised no one else brought this up) a nice man helps you off the ground, and you jump on his motorcycle to chase your ex down? How did you know this man was going to remain nice to you? He could have taken you down a back alley and become an ax murderer! PLEASE! be more careful. I realize you were caught up in the moment, but you're important to the people in your life, not to mention to the people of this forum!
Hugs and support to you in this time. Ex-boyfriends can be such asses sometimes.
Hi, I'm sorry your ex is being such a complete and total a$$. Just some advice from personal experience, be careful. I had an ex who wound up stealing from me and when I went to the police he vandalized my car. I'm not saying your ex would do anything like that, but you never know how people are going to react when they feel provoked or threatened/defensive in some way. Best of luck in resolving the situation!!!
Wow Fran. I got to say I am really proud of you for sticking up for yourself like that. Way to go!!! But shame on you for just hopping onto a bike with a stranger!!!
At least Ben know knows that you are not a push over that he can merely toy with. Stand up for yourself.... next time he asks you for something you know exactly where to tell him to go!!! Don't let him get to you. Whats done is done.
Do you have called ID??? Don't answer the phone next time.
At least Ben know knows that you are not a push over that he can merely toy with. Stand up for yourself.... next time he asks you for something you know exactly where to tell him to go!!! Don't let him get to you. Whats done is done.
Do you have called ID??? Don't answer the phone next time.
Fran i have to agree. I know they say revenge is sweet, but sometimes it's just not worth it.
Your best bet would be to hold your head up high, and move on with your life and not give him the satisfaction of knowing your bothered!
Your best bet would be to hold your head up high, and move on with your life and not give him the satisfaction of knowing your bothered!
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its not a motorcycle, its a vespa those scooters they use in italy alot..
now everyone just wish that, that moment was caught on tape
i swear if i had a license and a car i would have just smashed into his car even if there were people in it.. thats how crazy i was
