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Thanks...I'm trying!Originally Posted by WellingtonCats
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Feel better soon!
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Can someone help me out here?....
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I know that sometimes when I'm depressed, making some sort of plans for a month or two ahead, just to give me a short-term "goodie" to look forward to helps. Get tickets to a show, plan a weekend getaway, or plan a special evening for no reason other than just to do it! Whatever you decide to do, make sure that there is a month or two between now and the date you decide to do it, so that in the meantime you'll have it to look forward to! Hope this helps.
It could be a really bad case of PMS. I tend to cry and feel really Blah, when I'm PMSing. I hope that's what it is, since you really don't want to be pregnant.
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It's not that I really don't want to be...its just that I'm not really ready to be! Financially wise anyways! But if this is whats going to happen, I'm willing to open it all with open arms...God always has a reason for everything...right?
No matter what is going on with you, remember that we are here for you!Originally Posted by babyharley
It's not that I really don't want to be...its just that I'm not really ready to be! Financially wise anyways! But if this is whats going to happen, I'm willing to open it all with open arms...God always has a reason for everything...right?
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.Originally Posted by catsknowme
No matter what is going on with you, remember that we are here for you!and it sounds like your sweeties is a thoughtful, caring bf!
Oh he is....at least he told me that no matter what happens...he will be there with me...I wish all men out there were that caring!!
Had to dig through to find this thread and check up on you. How are you feeling now?
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I've been so busy at work I never had a chance to reply yet today. Still kinda the same, not my usual self!Originally Posted by sunnicat
Had to dig through to find this thread and check up on you. How are you feeling now?
Baby, you shouldn't put your self through this waiting. Why don't you take a test?Originally Posted by babyharley
I've been so busy at work I never had a chance to reply yet today. Still kinda the same, not my usual self!My "monthly" should be arriving tomorrow (LETS HOPE....oh I know you all care so much, LOL!) so I'm praying and praying and praying that everything arrives on time...I still feel just blah...and crying, yup, happened again yesterday..for no reason!Boy I fell ya...my horomones sure are outta wack..
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*sigh*...I was just thinking that maybe I should just wait until tomorrow...and if things don't arrive as planned...then I should take one?...how long does it take for something like that to show? I've never had to take one before....
They have tests that will show you right away. I think it is First Response.Originally Posted by babyharley
*sigh*...I was just thinking that maybe I should just wait until tomorrow...and if things don't arrive as planned...then I should take one?...how long does it take for something like that to show? I've never had to take one before....
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Do you really think I should take one right away? Or should I wait until tomorrow to see? I'm so scared!!
If I were you, I would do it asap. I would be sick waiting and not knowing!Originally Posted by babyharley
Do you really think I should take one right away? Or should I wait until tomorrow to see? I'm so scared!!
Take one.
Having a period is no guarantee you're not pregnant.
My sister continued having a regular period with all three pregnancies until the 4th month.
Having a period is no guarantee you're not pregnant.
My sister continued having a regular period with all three pregnancies until the 4th month.
These tests are to detect Human Chorionic Gonadotrophin (hCG), a hormone secreted from the placenta into the maternal circulation with a role in the maintenance the pregnancy. Even the most sensitive tests generally require that you wait until the first day you miss your period, so tomorrow would be an appropriate day to test. Keep in mind that you could get a false negative if the test did not detect the hormone. If you're going to test this early, it is best to use your first morning urine because this is when the hormone is most concentrated.
Sure hope this does not become an issue for you.
Baby Harley is all the baby you need right now!
Sure hope this does not become an issue for you.
I agree with testing - early knowing is a good thing! Also, it may be something with the seasons; fall has always bothered me because of the shifting light patterns. That can pop up at any time, and be pretty random! Also, if you are not pregnant and stay this way for more than two weeks, it's time to see a doctor. Depression can be random and rapid.
I have a long history, but one fall I had a major episode, and believe it or not, it was because I didn't get into the choir at college I wanted to be in! I was still in a good one, but not the best. For some reason, I just cried and cried...and felt wierd, and started losing weight, etc. I waited too long, and got very sick. I am about the only one I know who talks about this stuff... perhaps I shouldn't??
But I'm guessing that your mood is more transitory. Good luck with all things, and make sure you don't put off seeing a doctor if there are any medical or persistent mood changes.
I have a long history, but one fall I had a major episode, and believe it or not, it was because I didn't get into the choir at college I wanted to be in! I was still in a good one, but not the best. For some reason, I just cried and cried...and felt wierd, and started losing weight, etc. I waited too long, and got very sick. I am about the only one I know who talks about this stuff... perhaps I shouldn't??
But I'm guessing that your mood is more transitory. Good luck with all things, and make sure you don't put off seeing a doctor if there are any medical or persistent mood changes.
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You guys are so great....I think I might wait and take one tomorrow...I'm gonna buy a test tonight and then tomorrow night (if I need to) I will take one...Steph your right, Harley is all the baby that I need right now...I'm so scared I really hope its negative...lets just hope that my horomones are taking me for a whirl right now! (not like thats ANY better!!)
Thank you to EVERYONE...you are all just fabulous...who knew I could find this great of friends on a cat site
Thank you to EVERYONE...you are all just fabulous...who knew I could find this great of friends on a cat site
It is more accurate with the first morning urine, so you should do it in the morning. Hopefully it is just a case of PMS + stress + hormones. I'll be watching for the results!
I was going to suggest pregnant too....Originally Posted by babyharley
Oh my, 2 hours!? I was in the office for a good 10 min, if even, with the DR. I really didnt like my dr I went to yesterday, the one I usually go to was booked and this was the only time I was gonna be home to get to see someone. It was very, very painful, which is odd cuz for me it usually is never like that....oh the joys of being a woman...
I was talking to my friend here the other day and she told me, "oh, maybe you are pregnant" (from my crying spirts) I was like oh great, thats all that I need...being 21 and unmarried and pregnant...that made me cry again!
