I'm posting this because the poor little guy is breaking my heart. He's such a sad little cat, he always looks afraid and nervous... if you reach out to pet him, no matter how quietly and gently you do it, he pulls away, clearly scared. He's terrified of my fiance for no reason (other than a probable experience with a previous owner) and hides at a pin drop.
He seeks me out when I'm on the computer or lying in bed and tries to lay on top of me, right by my head. He always wants to lick my hands, and if I move them away, he'll follow. He's so sweet, always head butting me and trying to get me to pet him (his expression when he gets lovin is clearly that of being in heaven) but he's so needy... wants my attention 24/7.
And lastly... the hairpulling. I thought it was over but maybe it never stopped? He'll lick himself vigorously... lick, lick, lick...puuuull. And out will come a big chunk of hair, which he'll proceed to eat. Why? That's gotta hurt him... not to mention, it's responsible for hairballs I get to pick up.
When I took him to the vet, they couldn't figure out the pulling. It's not devoted to any specific spot, no UTI or sickness and I don't think it'd be stress as he's been with us for 6 months and in this apartment for 3.
Sorry so long but I think I half needed to vent... he's such a sweet guy and he breaks my heart with his behavior. What can I do?
He seeks me out when I'm on the computer or lying in bed and tries to lay on top of me, right by my head. He always wants to lick my hands, and if I move them away, he'll follow. He's so sweet, always head butting me and trying to get me to pet him (his expression when he gets lovin is clearly that of being in heaven) but he's so needy... wants my attention 24/7.
And lastly... the hairpulling. I thought it was over but maybe it never stopped? He'll lick himself vigorously... lick, lick, lick...puuuull. And out will come a big chunk of hair, which he'll proceed to eat. Why? That's gotta hurt him... not to mention, it's responsible for hairballs I get to pick up.
When I took him to the vet, they couldn't figure out the pulling. It's not devoted to any specific spot, no UTI or sickness and I don't think it'd be stress as he's been with us for 6 months and in this apartment for 3.
Sorry so long but I think I half needed to vent... he's such a sweet guy and he breaks my heart with his behavior. What can I do?