I use Quicken and call the automated line 2-3 times a week and balance it then. It wasn't such a pain before we started using a checkcard as I'd always used duplicate checks and so always had a copy. But now it is imperative that I get all the receipts. I'm actually worse about "handing the receipts in" than he is
although I'm getting better, just had to get in the habit of putting them all in the same place.
I'm happy to say that these days it always
balances which it didn't before I started using this program. I'm horrible at math, and somehow even with the calculator I'd always be anywhere from a few cents to a few dollars off.
I handle the finances in our family too, mostly because I was simply more experienced at it when we got married (I was just shy of 30 and he was a bit over 23) although I do make him do the bills every now and then so in the event something should happen to me he'll know where things are and what's going on.