Please tell me I am not the only one to be completely lost on occasion balancing a check book.
I'm better off than I was this morning, but I still cant get the darn thing to balance! Ahhh! This is usually my husband's job for a reason!!!
My husband will be out of the military in a few months and he is going to college to study finance. Lucky me huh?Originally Posted by winwin
My wife does all the money management in our house. I started to post "I let my wife do all the money management . . ." isn't that a puffed-up chauvinistic thing to say ? I am trying to be better about such, but old habits die hard. As for the money, I told Betty (my wife) that if I got my allowance every month, she could do as she pleased with all the rest and I wouldn't question her at all. She is a wonder with finances, used to have a pretty high position with the old VNB in Norfolk. She still has a high position -- the pedestal I keep her on.
Leonard.
This made me smile. Just today our new financial advisor talked to hubby about moving an IRA out of an expensive fund "a no-brainer". Hubby who is well trained said he would think about it (meaning he would talk to me about it). The advisor just said - have the wife call me and we will decide on it. Poor hubby was embarrassed cause he had to admit who really made the financial decisions.Originally Posted by winwin
My wife does all the money management in our house. I started to post "I let my wife do all the money management . . ." isn't that a puffed-up chauvinistic thing to say ? I am trying to be better about such, but old habits die hard. As for the money, I told Betty (my wife) that if I got my allowance every month, she could do as she pleased with all the rest and I wouldn't question her at all. She is a wonder with finances, used to have a pretty high position with the old VNB in Norfolk. She still has a high position -- the pedestal I keep her on.
Leonard.
That's not always safe. For almost thirty years, my mother handled all of my parents' finances. After Mom's stroke, Pops sat down with the books and HE almost had a stroke! Mom is (was) a compulsive shopper and had numerous maxed-out credit cards (one had a balance of around $25,000). She was moving money around between various cards and making only minimum payments. Thank goodness, she can't dial QVC anymore.Originally Posted by winwin
My wife does all the money management in our house. I started to post "I let my wife do all the money management . . ." isn't that a puffed-up chauvinistic thing to say ? I am trying to be better about such, but old habits die hard. As for the money, I told Betty (my wife) that if I got my allowance every month, she could do as she pleased with all the rest and I wouldn't question her at all. She is a wonder with finances, used to have a pretty high position with the old VNB in Norfolk. She still has a high position -- the pedestal I keep her on.
Leonard.
We do this also. It was something my Youth Pastor growing up did with his wife and we decided to do it also before we got married. It deffiantley helps!Originally Posted by Yosemite
We never purchase any major items without discussing it with each other and agreeing about how much, and where we will take the money from to pay for it.
It's worked very well for 28 years so if it ain't broken I ain't gonna fix it!