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TomKat are engaged!!

post #1 of 24
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Tom Cruse and Kaite Holmes are getting married. They've been together for less then 3 months and now they are engaged?? I'm happy for them but it's going way to fast. Slow down you two!!!

What do you think??
post #2 of 24
Can't say much about the short dating time/engagement....we met in April, engaged in Aug, wanted to get married Thanksgiving, lol!
post #3 of 24
I voted -it won't last- but only because there was no -who cares- option
post #4 of 24
I voted it won't last, and i'll give them until this time next year.

I met and married my husband within 8 months and we lasted 18 years before i finished it.

But i think you have to work harder at it when it's a showbiz marriage
post #5 of 24
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Originally Posted by Rita
I voted -it won't last- but only because there was no -who cares- option
I don't care either..
post #6 of 24
I don't care.
These people tend to be a very bad example for us 'regular' people, who also have an extremely high rate of failing marriage.

I just really wish that things like this stopped making the front page. There are more important things happening in the world than who Tom Cruise is getting married to this week that people should be aware of.
post #7 of 24
i didnt vote cause i honestly dont care
post #8 of 24
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Originally Posted by Rita
I voted -it won't last- but only because there was no -who cares- option

What she said, except I voted that I don't know how they are going to do.
post #9 of 24
Who the flip cares anyway...
post #10 of 24
He is just gross and I can't believe she lets him slobber all over her in public. Ugh. What a pig !!!
post #11 of 24
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Originally Posted by ScamperFarms
i didnt vote cause i honestly dont care
What they said.
post #12 of 24
i did the i dont know cause I dont and dont really care..
post #13 of 24
I voted "I don't really know...." because I don't care either.
post #14 of 24
Hmmm, how many times has this guy been married already, I know reports say he is crazy over this girl so it could be the one - but who's to say he is the one for her.. ??

I voted - I don't know really
post #15 of 24
I don't think it will last because I think it is publicity stunt. I also only knew my dh for 7 months before we married, 12 yrs later and we are still happy!
post #16 of 24
She claims that she used to have a poster of him in her room and said "I'm going to marry him someday" wooohoo! I guess that means they were meant to be. She dated Chris Klien for 5 years, and never got engaged. They should both know better. It won't last. How can one honestly and truely get to know everything about a person in 2 months time? I could care less, but they are setting a bad example.
post #17 of 24
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Originally Posted by Beckiboo
I don't think it will last because I think it is publicity stunt. I also only knew my dh for 7 months before we married, 12 yrs later and we are still happy!
I have to agree with Beckiboo. I think it's a publicity stunt as well, so I don't think it will last. But I think she will benefit more out of this whole thing than him, since he is an established actor already...not that she isn't just wasn't high up on the interesting list. But it's interesting to read that many got married within the first year of the relationship I think it's nice...I have been with boyfriend for 8 years and we are not engaged or married. But they say the longer you wait the smaller the chance that you will ever marry that person, so that would probably bring me down to 0-1% chance
post #18 of 24
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Originally Posted by sofiecusion
She claims that she used to have a poster of him in her room and said "I'm going to marry him someday" wooohoo! I guess that means they were meant to be. She dated Chris Klien for 5 years, and never got engaged. They should both know better. It won't last. How can one honestly and truely get to know everything about a person in 2 months time? I could care less, but they are setting a bad example.
Actually, I believe she was engaged to Chris Klein, but called it off.

I don't think it will last either. I've got a lot of opinions about some aspects of this story, but being this isn't an IMO thread so much, I'll keep it to myself.
post #19 of 24
It doesn't matter much to me, but I would hope it would work for them just because I have no reason to wish it wouldn't!

On a note about time dating, my parents dated 3 months before getting engaged. My mom was 18 and my dad was 26. They've now been married for 33 years so timing never really strikes me as a deciding factor.
post #20 of 24
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Originally Posted by sofiecusion
She claims that she used to have a poster of him in her room and said "I'm going to marry him someday" wooohoo! I guess that means they were meant to be.
Is it just me that this seems a little creepy about? At least from Tom's perspective?

And wow...if they were meant to be because she had posters and swore she'd marry him as a girl, then I must be destined to marry...um....Tommy Lee, or a plethora of other rock stars! Move over Tara Reid - I had dibbs!
post #21 of 24
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Originally Posted by valanhb
Is it just me that this seems a little creepy about? At least from Tom's perspective?

And wow...if they were meant to be because she had posters and swore she'd marry him as a girl, then I must be destined to marry...um....Tommy Lee, or a plethora of other rock stars! Move over Tara Reid - I had dibbs!
You forgot to mention Trent Reznor. He would be very disappointed in you Heidi!

tom cruise is flakier than box of Kellog's cereal.
post #22 of 24
I don't care, either. I'm not a strong believer in "marriage", anyway. I think we'd all be better off, if there was no "marriage".

The way I see this relationship, is that she is a young impressionable girl, whom Tom Cruise, (the BIG SUPERSTAR, older man) thinks is "HOT". Because of his Power and the fact that he's nice looking man, he can have his pick of just about any young girl he wants, be it young actress or any other young girl. For her, it's a young fans dream come true, to have the man she obsessed about as a girl, fall in love with her and want to marry her. Even though I'm not as young, it would be like Paul Stanley falling in love with me. So, I can understand where she is coming from.

However, this relationship does seem a bit troubling to me, maybe a little on the "sick" side.
post #23 of 24
well i'm happy for them, who are we to say it wont last?
Maybe they just know they are right for each other.
post #24 of 24
Big Freakin Deal. Who Cares?
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