Good thoughts for Claire

jcat · May 9, 2005

I'm sending for Claire to find the right home.

eilcon · May 10, 2005

No word from the priest yet regarding Claire and I hate to push him because I know it's a big decision. The family that was interested has decided to pass. They feel their male cat is too much of a bully.

Meanwhile, I had a very restless night obssessing about whether I should keep Claire. She and Pete were playing like crazy and grooming each other again this morning. They are so cute together. On the way into the office was so distracted I rearended the car in front of me. No damage to either car, but I ended up in tears anyway.

I wish I hadn't come to care about Claire so much (okay love her, but I'm trying not to use that word!) Anyway, thanks for all the support, prayers and positive thoughts. They mean so much. Will keep you posted. I'm going to go find some chocolate.

flisssweetpea · May 10, 2005

Oh Eilcon I really feel for you - I'm so sorry that you have been put in this situation by others who don't care. They take advantage of wonderful people like you who care so much. I really hope that, if the Priest has the right home and heart for Claire that he comes through. If she is meant to stay with you - I hope you are all very happy together.

eilcon · May 10, 2005

Couldn't stand it any longer and called Fr. Grad. Said he needs a couple more days, but is leaning towards taking Claire. His biggest concern is that she's so young and he's older (70's) and who would care for her if anything happens to him. I reassured him that she would always have a place with me. Please keep the good thoughts coming! Thanks!

pamela · May 10, 2005

Originally Posted by eilcon

Couldn't stand it any longer and called Fr. Grad. Said he needs a couple more days, but is leaning towards taking Claire. His biggest concern is that she's so young and he's older (70's) and who would care for her if anything happens to him. I reassured him that she would always have a place with me. Please keep the good thoughts coming! Thanks!

OHH!!!!!!!!!!!!

Keeping my fingers crossed and sending good thoughts/vibes!! One thing that I admire is that the Priest IS thinking of what's best for Claire- what would happen to her if he passes away. That shows he will be a VERY RESPONSIBLE owner!

And this way, you can still keep in touch with Claire and perhaps visit her.... So I think it'll work out! Hang in there..

flisssweetpea · May 10, 2005

The Priest sounds just the right kind of owner. Putting Claire's needs before his own. I hope it all works out well. Keeping my fingers crossed.

coolcat · May 10, 2005

Originally Posted by flisssweetpea

Keeping my fingers crossed.

I still praying for her!

Please God Help us with poor Claire!

eilcon · May 11, 2005

Wish I could stop obsessing about this, but now that I know there's a good chance Fr. Grad will take Claire, I'm having second thoughts. Keep thinking about how much I'll miss her and that maybe I should just keep her. I've even thought about convincing him to adopt one of the other young adult cats we have available.

Then, I realize that this is pretty selfish and remember how long he's grieved for his old cat and what it's taken for him to reach out to this little one who needs a home. She'll be better off with him where she can be the center of attention and treated like a princess.

Although the rescue group doesn't have any formal agreement that we have adopters sign, I'm thinking about drafting something for both of us to sign that if anything happens to Fr. Grad, Claire will come back to me. I think he'll be agreeable and be reassured to know she'll be cared for.

Sorry for obsessing guys, but I've become way too attached to this little cat.
I love all of the ones we have in foster care, but she's really gotten to me. I've been through many other adoptions, but none have been this hard.
Besides continued good vibes for Claire, please send some my way too that I can be strong and do what's best for her and Fr. Grad.

Thanks for your patience and for listening.

coolcat · May 11, 2005

Originally Posted by eilcon

Thanks for your patience and for listening.

you not need to give us the Thanks...

ThatÂ´s why are the friends...

I repeat you " GOD BLESS you for make this incredible labour with HER!"

I tell you this with my heart in my hand:

"In moments like this I really wish to live near to where is the problem to help"

...

Claire and you are in my thougths and my prayers!

pamela · May 11, 2005

Originally Posted by eilcon

Wish I could stop obsessing about this, but now that I know there's a good chance Fr. Grad will take Claire, I'm having second thoughts. Keep thinking about how much I'll miss her and that maybe I should just keep her. I've even thought about convincing him to adopt one of the other young adult cats we have available.

Then, I realize that this is pretty selfish and remember how long he's grieved for his old cat and what it's taken for him to reach out to this little one who needs a home. She'll be better off with him where she can be the center of attention and treated like a princess.

Although the rescue group doesn't have any formal agreement that we have adopters sign, I'm thinking about drafting something for both of us to sign that if anything happens to Fr. Grad, Claire will come back to me. I think he'll be agreeable and be reassured to know she'll be cared for.

Sorry for obsessing guys, but I've become way too attached to this little cat.
I love all of the ones we have in foster care, but she's really gotten to me. I've been through many other adoptions, but none have been this hard.
Besides continued good vibes for Claire, please send some my way too that I can be strong and do what's best for her and Fr. Grad.

Thanks for your patience and for listening.

Eilcon- I think you are a lot like me!

I tend to obsess with things like this and having second thoughts about decisions. I know how frustrating it is..

I often WISH that we could see the future then we'd KNOW what the best decision would be!

If you do decide to have the priest adopt her, then I think idea of drafting out an agreement where if something happens to the priest that Claire will be returned to you is a GREAT idea. I think that will give both you and the priest PEACE of MIND.

I know how difficult it is to let go of some cats- Some cats worm their way into our hearts more than others..

I KNOW you will do the best thing for Claire, yourself and others. You really care about her and that's a sign that you will do the right thing whether to keep Claire or not.

If u need to talk more about this, feel free to pm me anytime!

I will be cking this thread often for updates also.

eilcon · May 12, 2005

Claire has a home!!!

Fr. Grad will be picking her up on Sunday afternoon. I'm basically happy about this. Will be good for him and her. But, am feeling very sad too.
Had pretty much decided if he didn't take her, I was going to keep her.
This is for the best, though. Because of his age, he's agreeable to signing something stating that if he no longer able to care for her, she'll be returned to me. I find this very reassuring and know he does too. It's just so hard to let her go!

Anyway, thanks to all of you for your enouragement and support. Your good vibes and prayers helped get Claire a great home and you helped me get through a very emotional situation.

Please keep the good thoughts coming, that Claire settles into her new home and that she and Fr. Grad have many happy years together.

Thanks again. You guys are awesome!

flisssweetpea · May 12, 2005

What fantastic news. I'm sure that Claire with be very happy in her new furrever home. It sounds like you've taken great care to ensure she has a loving companion and carer. what's more, you're secure in the knowledge that she can come to you if she finds herself alone again. Wonderful

Good luck Claire, I hope you will be very happy.

rita · May 12, 2005

Good News! I hope Claire likes her new home

coolcat · May 12, 2005

Believe me I feel so touched!

This WONDERFUL new MAKE MY DAY today!

...

thanks for share Eilcon!

The (((((Good Vibes)))))) keep on the way!

Thanks God!

pamela · May 12, 2005

eilcon - Claire has a home!!!

Fr. Grad will be picking her up on Sunday afternoon. I'm basically happy about this. Will be good for him and her. But, am feeling very sad too.
Had pretty much decided if he didn't take her, I was going to keep her.
This is for the best, though. Because of his age, he's agreeable to signing something stating that if he no longer able to care for her, she'll be returned to me. I find this very reassuring and know he does too. It's just so hard to let her go!

I'm so happy that this has worked out great for Claire. I know you will miss her.. Maybe if the priest lives near you, maybe you can offer to babysit her if he goes out of town anytime?

I think it's great that the priest will sign a document stating that if he can't take care of Claire that she'll be returned to you. It will give both of you peace of mind.

Take it a day at a time. It will gradually become easier to let go of Claire. I remember when I left Callie (feral) behind when I had to move, I kept crying for the first few days. That's even after I knew I had made arrangements with a neighbor that she'd be taken care of. Gradually, it became easier to think of her without missing her too much.

Be sure to take lots of pics of Claire before she leaves!

goosehazel · May 12, 2005

That's fantastic! I know it's hard to see Claire go, believe me. I just went through this 2 weeks ago. I miss Hazel but I know she went to a good home (my mother-in-law took her). Just give it some time and you'll feel better and realize you made the right decision. She'll be happy.

eilcon · May 16, 2005

Just wanted to update everyone on Claire. She went to her new home yesterday afternoon. As hard as it was to let her go (yeah, there were some tears!), I really believe this will be a good thing for her and Fr. Grad. He actually got down on the floor (remember he's 70 plus) to try to play with her and was able to pet her a little. I spoke to him this morning and he said she has eaten, used the box and has been out and about in his apartment exploring. Sounds like they're off to a good start!

coolcat · May 16, 2005

Dear Eilcon

... sheÂ´s in my prayers...

..ThankÂ´s for the updated..

eilcon · May 23, 2005

Just spoke to Claire's new "dad." He said she's still hiding quite a bit, but has ventured out to play and demand some attention. He's been able to pet her, though not as much as he'd like. Kind of got the impression that he was hoping she'd warm up more quickly, so I reminded him of all the upheaval in her short life and encouraged him to give it a more time, which he is willing to do.

Please keep the good thoughts coming for both of them.
Thanks!

coolcat · May 23, 2005

thank you Eilcon, very, very thank you ...

I really appreciate this up dated of the lovely Claire

sheÂ´s on my thougths...

Good thoughts for Claire

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