Originally Posted by rosiemac
I do know people though who just have the £££ signs in their eyes!.
Originally Posted by rosiemac
I do know people though who just have the £££ signs in their eyes!.
I think that you can tell the rough patches from time to break up by the way you feel. If you think about breaking up....and it truly scares you and makes you sick...and the thought of him being with anyone but you and vice versa makes you cry...then maybe this is just a rough patch. When its over....and you know it...you dont need the time to talk about it. Especially, with what you just wrote...I think you already know the answer. Its hard to find the strength to fight a battle you dont want to be in. Maybe what hes got and what you need are 2 different things. And you shouldnt be unhappy. And being in a relationship where nothing you do is right will chip away at your self esteem...whether it already has, I dont know.Originally Posted by maverick_kitten
I don't know if i love Rocky any more or if i'm with him because he's there.
I can't do anything right by him, I think i'd rather be alone than with someone who makes me unhappy.
How can you tell the rough patches from the time to break up?
Originally Posted by Pat & Alix
Let me tell you, especially in these days, how much in gold do you think a committed and faithful, unconditionally loving husband is worth? Priceless
oh Bobbie, I just HAVE to respond to this for two reasons: first and foremost you are one of the coolest, upbeat, intelligent human beings on this site and you have a lotta good stuff goin' on!!Originally Posted by batgirl2good
In the past, I have continued to see guys, date them, talk to them, etc. ONLY because I thought I was more worthwhile if there were a man in my life. I had the mistaken idea that I was not good enough unless a man were interested in me.
Nicky i left my husband for someone else, but when we finally split 2 years ago the first thing people said to me was "Are you going to go back with your husband?!".Originally Posted by maverick_kitten
I don't know if i love Rocky any more or if i'm with him because he's there.
I can't do anything right by him, I think i'd rather be alone than with someone who makes me unhappy.
How can you tell the rough patches from the time to break up?
I really know how you feel! I just recently broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years. It is difficult to tell when it is just a rough patch, but if the rough patches outweigh the good times then is there really a point if the relationship is making you unhappy?Originally Posted by maverick_kitten
I don't know if i love Rocky any more or if i'm with him because he's there.
I can't do anything right by him, I think i'd rather be alone than with someone who makes me unhappy.
How can you tell the rough patches from the time to break up?
Not a problem here, darlin'! It does help to talk about it, even if its just writing it down here. Just remember, we're here to listen and lend an opinion when you want it, and the occasional hug too.Originally Posted by maverick_kitten
Sorry to have hijacked this thread for so long
You're very welcome, oh, and I forgot before I entered a minute ago {{{{HUGS}}}} for you, darlin', 'cause I know that you need them right now!Originally Posted by maverick_kitten
thank you
Originally Posted by maverick_kitten
i feel strangely ok. i love him but i cant go on being unhappy. i feel so bad that this happened just after his gran died but to be honest i dont think he wanted to be with me any more either, he just needed someone there for him.
as lacking as he found me i guess i was better than nothing.
life goes on.