It won't matter if you don't reply, I just need to get this out...
I have been very nervous to post this... I think by doing so I am making this real to myself... I don't think I have yet...
I really apologize to the people I should have told, but please understand, it really is all or nothing right now. My family and friends don't know yet either. That comes tomorrow.
As well to those of you whom I have been getting PMs/emails from, wondering where I have been... This is the main reason I have been away.
While I have been putting on a brave face in RL it is really hard to do that here, ironic isn't it? I am a faceless person on the computer and I can't pretend with all of you~
My engagement is over. There it is, simply put.
Brandon and I are still very much together and in love for now
, but we are no longer getting married. At least at this point. I have cried so many tears and thought they were done, and now here I am crying again.
A bit of background~
We have been together for almost 6 years now, both of us in high school when we first started dating. I was 15 (LOL) he was 18. During the first year we broke up for about 6 months but since then have been together forever or so my dream went.
Lately, well, for a while now, we have been fighting constantly. Over stupid meaningless things and now it is just too much. We never see eye to eye anymore, and the little things that used to make us happy just aren't working anymore.
I see that we are growing up and obviously in different directions. I hate it!!!
I HATE IT!!!
I want what we were back! I want to be 16 again! LOL and to think that short time ago all I wanted was to be in my 20s.
Well being in your 20s can really suck (sorry for the lack of a better term) BUT THIS SUCKS!
The other night, I am not going to get into the details because I think that should stay private, after a few hours of talking, crying, and more honesty than I would have liked, our relationship has been downgraded. We are going to take it easy and see where things go, but we both realize that this might be it.
Brandon is THE love of my life, please don't ask how I know this, I just do.
I want him only. I don't want "us" to be over.
I know I can live without him, I don't want to. I want to be with him forever, have kids someday, he would make the best daddy, and just live our life.
If I am not around much, just for a while longer, please understand that TCS is a wonderful part of my life, but I have, NEED, to work this out~
I am heartbroken and we are still together. I can't imagine what it will be like if we move on from each other.
Well, if you made it this far, thank you for listening.
I have to work up the courage to tell everyone else tomorrow and I know it will be 10 times worse since I will see their faces and I know they all had such high hopes for us.
My heart is exhausted. But my mind is racing. There can't be that many more tears can there?
I have been very nervous to post this... I think by doing so I am making this real to myself... I don't think I have yet...
I really apologize to the people I should have told, but please understand, it really is all or nothing right now. My family and friends don't know yet either. That comes tomorrow.
As well to those of you whom I have been getting PMs/emails from, wondering where I have been... This is the main reason I have been away.
While I have been putting on a brave face in RL it is really hard to do that here, ironic isn't it? I am a faceless person on the computer and I can't pretend with all of you~
My engagement is over. There it is, simply put.
Brandon and I are still very much together and in love for now
A bit of background~
We have been together for almost 6 years now, both of us in high school when we first started dating. I was 15 (LOL) he was 18. During the first year we broke up for about 6 months but since then have been together forever or so my dream went.
Lately, well, for a while now, we have been fighting constantly. Over stupid meaningless things and now it is just too much. We never see eye to eye anymore, and the little things that used to make us happy just aren't working anymore.
I see that we are growing up and obviously in different directions. I hate it!!!
I HATE IT!!!
I want what we were back! I want to be 16 again! LOL and to think that short time ago all I wanted was to be in my 20s.
Well being in your 20s can really suck (sorry for the lack of a better term) BUT THIS SUCKS!
The other night, I am not going to get into the details because I think that should stay private, after a few hours of talking, crying, and more honesty than I would have liked, our relationship has been downgraded. We are going to take it easy and see where things go, but we both realize that this might be it.
Brandon is THE love of my life, please don't ask how I know this, I just do.
I want him only. I don't want "us" to be over.
I know I can live without him, I don't want to. I want to be with him forever, have kids someday, he would make the best daddy, and just live our life.
If I am not around much, just for a while longer, please understand that TCS is a wonderful part of my life, but I have, NEED, to work this out~
I am heartbroken and we are still together. I can't imagine what it will be like if we move on from each other.
Well, if you made it this far, thank you for listening.
I have to work up the courage to tell everyone else tomorrow and I know it will be 10 times worse since I will see their faces and I know they all had such high hopes for us.
My heart is exhausted. But my mind is racing. There can't be that many more tears can there?