I'm sorry you were disappointed.
Romance is often much more important to us emotional females.
Make sure you tell your fiance how important Valentines Day and your Birthday is to you and that it makes you happy to feel 'special'. Everyone knows, 'if mama's happy, everyone's happy.'
Men think differently than women. You have to clue them in, and then remind them of the upcoming holidays (with suggestions of a good gift--be it a card, flowers, chocolate, or whatever!) until they fall into the habit. Don't sit passively and expect. True, your 'gift' may feel like a lot of work, instead of a special one. But it's better than nothing at all. AND eventually, men can be trained.
Romance is often much more important to us emotional females.
Men think differently than women. You have to clue them in, and then remind them of the upcoming holidays (with suggestions of a good gift--be it a card, flowers, chocolate, or whatever!) until they fall into the habit. Don't sit passively and expect. True, your 'gift' may feel like a lot of work, instead of a special one. But it's better than nothing at all. AND eventually, men can be trained.