KittenKrazy MIL update

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Prayers and hugs to you and Charlie and the rest of the family. I used to work in a nursing home and I've seen similar to what you are describing happening with your MIL. It is wonderful that you and hubby are with her. I'm sure FIL is patiently waiting for her to join him so they can be together again. You are all in my prayers.
 

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My thoughts are with you. I was in your shoes just 2 years ago when my dear mom passed from liver cancer. She passed easily and readily and we were all there with her at the end. It's a very difficult time, but know that she goes to a better place and will watch over you and stay with you in spirit. I still feel my mom with me, especially at times when I'm doing something she would have loved to do.

Bless you both and be there for your husband as I'm sure you are.
 

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I'm sorry just never seems to be enough...
All of you are in my thoughts and prayers as you have been, now I can only say that I pray God takes her easily and she will joyfully reunite with her husband. Please let Charlie know that everyone here is thinking of him as well as you~
If there is anything at all, even the smallest thing, that I could do, please don't hesitate to ask~
 

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Originally Posted by hissy

Oh Cindy, when I read your last message to me, I feared for your final words. Please know that my thoughts and prayers rest with you and Charlie, and may the two of you retain a closeness, because now more than ever you need each other-
MA, I had to go back and look to see what I had said to you yesterday morning, I just could not remember! Thanks a lot, my friend.


As for us, I laid down too, and the two of us overslept the two hour alarm that he had set, so we're just now showering and changing to leave.

If anyone wants to text message me, just give Stephanie a buzz and ask her for my cell number.....I'd pm it to someone before I leave, but I never can remember it!!
 

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Cindy and Charlie - Sending all our strength and kindest thoughts to you and Charlie's mum at this difficult time. We're thinking of you
. I hope whatever will be, happens in the kindest, gentlest possible way.
 

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Continuing prayers for all of you, Cindy and Charlie and family
There are no adequate words, just know that we're all thinking of you, and praying that your MILs passing will be peaceful.
 

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Cindy and Charlie, I am so sorry and my thoughts and prayers are with you and the rest of the family. May Charlie's mom pass easily and peacefully, surrounded by those who love her.
 

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Originally Posted by dawnofsierra

Have just heard from Cindy. She and Charlie could really use our thoughts and prayers right now.
as always sending lots and lots of thoughts to you & Charlie
 

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Cindy, I'm so sorry to hear the heartache you, Charlie, and your family are going thru. I am sure that your family and your faith are a source of strength for each other during this sad time. I hope your MIL's passing will be quick and painless as possible. *HUG*
 

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And so when the time comes, she will pass with her family around her, loving her back to her Creator. She will leave her body behind, but will take all the love she has ever felt, and bring it with her to her escort angels. These angels will surround her, and continue the love she knows with her family. They will aid her, guide her, and sing her home, back into the Love That IS, and the Love That Always Will BE.

And some of that love she experiences will come back to you. Cindy, when you hold Charlie's hand, feel his love to you through his entwined fingers. Charlie, Cindy's love comes to you through her fingers nestled securely in yours. Together, you form a powerful connection with his mother, who is loving each of you through each other. She is sharing that love, that joy, that peace she now is enveloped in, with each of you, giving it to you to give away to the other. For in the giving is the completion of the circle, the endless circle of love and life and death and love. Give the love back, as it's given to you, and you complete the circle.

Grieve as you both must. Cry, and yell, and scream. And when it's out (and it must be let out), remember each other. Come together, and entwine your fingers together. And know that Mother is there again, the circle complete again, love flowing again.

For it is not Time which heals all wounds; it is Love which is the healer. And the circle the path that Love takes.

You both are in my thoughts and prayers, and may your Mother pass into the eternity of love and joy and peace surrounded by angels laughing.

Best-
Michele
 

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That is incredibly beautiful, Michele.

Love and thoughts and prayers for you, Cindy and Charlie, and family
 

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Wonderful words for all of us to remember Michelle when we all have times of loss with our loved ones........Cindy, please know our thoughts and prayers are with you all.......
 
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