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Bear (3 years old, neutered male) has had stress and anxiety related behavioral problems ever since I've had him (he's been with me for about a year and a half). Whenever we're not on a regular schedule or things change, he goes a little haywire and pees and poops on the bed, the couch, or other furniture all over the apartment. I have another cat (Socks, 9 years old female, spayed) and while they aren't best friends, they've learned to get along and share the space. There are 2 litterboxes, and they both use them.
I use Nature's Miracle cleaning products to help, I have a Feliway diffuser. Bear is even on Fluoxetine (5mg daily) to help manage his stress. I put aluminum foil on the sofa and chair when I'm gone to keep him from going there when I'm not home and I close my bedroom off. I even have a tarp to cover the guest bed in the "cat room" because it was easier to wipe down and deal with than having to strip bedding and wash constantly. Plus he doesn't typically mess with the tarp - it keeps him from using that bed as a litterbox. We've even gone through long periods of time without any accidents and his stress and potty problems are normally triggered by being boarded at the vet around holidays or for longer periods of time when I'm traveling with work. He'll normally potty outside the box anywhere been 1-3 times over a couple of days and then we're back in our routine and everything is all good again.
Both Socks and Bear recently spent a week in the vet while I was out of town - pet sitting normally doesn't work with Bear because he's on a schedule and it's typically just easier to have them at the vet in case anything does come up. However this time, both cats came home with fleas... So on top of figuring out and learning how to manage and kill a flea infestation with both kitties, Bear happens to have flea allergy dermatitis and also got an ear infection. We're home from the vet today, and hopefully on the right track to feeling better (still a bit sluggish) since I took him in on Saturday to get checked out when he was uncharacteristically lethargic for a couple of days and you guessed it - he hasn't used the litterbox for the entire past week. He's eating, drinking, and eliminating normally. Just not eliminating in the litterbox. Not as much fun to clean when you're already dealing with a cleaning frenzy brought on by fleas. (The cats were treated with Capstar and Advantage II, and I've been combing them both as much as I can to help rid of the flea dirt and whatever fleas are still there).
I'm looking for any kind of tips to help him go back to the box or deal with his stress. I know that it was likely triggered by the fleas and allergies this time, but it's been something that I've been living with (inappropriate potty habits) for over a year now and I'm officially at my wits end with it. I'm tired of having to constantly think about covering areas when I'm not home, and then having towels and puppy training pads under the couch covers to help with cleaning when he does manage to get to those spots.
Any suggestions/advice would be greatly appreciated. I'm open to anything that would positively help the situation.
My only other thought would be to rehome him, and I really don't want to get to that point. I love him and I know he loves me and the other cat - he is super affectionate and just a regular silly baby under all the stress issues and I'm too attached to let him go and have something happen to him. He's really not a bad cat - just a good cat with some dirty habits. It's just very hard to see other options, knowing all of the things I've tried and hearing a lot of people say how they would have already gotten rid of him with all the issues we've had in the past.
Please help.
I use Nature's Miracle cleaning products to help, I have a Feliway diffuser. Bear is even on Fluoxetine (5mg daily) to help manage his stress. I put aluminum foil on the sofa and chair when I'm gone to keep him from going there when I'm not home and I close my bedroom off. I even have a tarp to cover the guest bed in the "cat room" because it was easier to wipe down and deal with than having to strip bedding and wash constantly. Plus he doesn't typically mess with the tarp - it keeps him from using that bed as a litterbox. We've even gone through long periods of time without any accidents and his stress and potty problems are normally triggered by being boarded at the vet around holidays or for longer periods of time when I'm traveling with work. He'll normally potty outside the box anywhere been 1-3 times over a couple of days and then we're back in our routine and everything is all good again.
Both Socks and Bear recently spent a week in the vet while I was out of town - pet sitting normally doesn't work with Bear because he's on a schedule and it's typically just easier to have them at the vet in case anything does come up. However this time, both cats came home with fleas... So on top of figuring out and learning how to manage and kill a flea infestation with both kitties, Bear happens to have flea allergy dermatitis and also got an ear infection. We're home from the vet today, and hopefully on the right track to feeling better (still a bit sluggish) since I took him in on Saturday to get checked out when he was uncharacteristically lethargic for a couple of days and you guessed it - he hasn't used the litterbox for the entire past week. He's eating, drinking, and eliminating normally. Just not eliminating in the litterbox. Not as much fun to clean when you're already dealing with a cleaning frenzy brought on by fleas. (The cats were treated with Capstar and Advantage II, and I've been combing them both as much as I can to help rid of the flea dirt and whatever fleas are still there).
I'm looking for any kind of tips to help him go back to the box or deal with his stress. I know that it was likely triggered by the fleas and allergies this time, but it's been something that I've been living with (inappropriate potty habits) for over a year now and I'm officially at my wits end with it. I'm tired of having to constantly think about covering areas when I'm not home, and then having towels and puppy training pads under the couch covers to help with cleaning when he does manage to get to those spots.
Any suggestions/advice would be greatly appreciated. I'm open to anything that would positively help the situation.
My only other thought would be to rehome him, and I really don't want to get to that point. I love him and I know he loves me and the other cat - he is super affectionate and just a regular silly baby under all the stress issues and I'm too attached to let him go and have something happen to him. He's really not a bad cat - just a good cat with some dirty habits. It's just very hard to see other options, knowing all of the things I've tried and hearing a lot of people say how they would have already gotten rid of him with all the issues we've had in the past.
Please help.