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My SO and I live with our 2 cats, Hunter and Louie. We got Hunter together, but I've had Louie ever since he was born, when I still lived at my parents house. So he's pretty much grown up with me. He was a typical kitten. He's not a super affectionate cat; doesn't like to be picked up and only likes to be petted when HE wants to be petted. He's been displaying some behaviours I'm not thrilled with and they've just been getting worse, despite our efforts to stop them.
1) Aggression? when he wants to be petted, he'll walk under your hand and headbutt you and pretty much "pet himself" against you. He can get pushy. I don't know if he gets overstimulated or what because sometimes he'll suddenly flip out and bite me really hard. Only me, though. Not my SO, not my parents when we lived at home. I thought I was overstimulating him, so I would restrict my petting to certain areas, or taper off, or stop all together. Everything I do, including just ignoring him, results in me getting bit. He also does this when he's begging for food and I ignore him. I'll walk by, and he'll attack my foot.
Is he trying to show me who's boss? He doesn't do this to anyone else, so I'm wondering if it has something to do with me being the only female in the house? When I lived at home, he slept with me every night in bed, and even sleeps with me/us in bed now once in a while- so I don't think he hates me or anything.
2) Constantly meowing and wanting to eat. the meowing. I posted about this several months ago and haven't made much progress. We have one cat who, after getting fixed, gained weight. His coat has been dull lately, so we decided to put them on a low-carb wet food diet and limit the dry food. They eat at 7-8AM and 7-8PM every night. Louie is fit and lean, whereas Hunter is chunky. But Louie eats WAY more than Hunter. He's begging for food 2 hours after he's been fed. I don't understand it. I keep a squirt bottle next to me in bed because SO and I both work nights and he keeps us up meowing and meowing. We live in an apartment and if I knew he wouldn't tear the carpet to shreds, I'd lock him out of the bedroom.
I think him being bored and wanting to play might play a factor in this. Admittedly we haven't been setting aside enough time to play with them after work the last few months. So I'm going to start this up again and see if it makes a difference.
He's not a bad cat, he's just got some bad behaviours I'd like to lessen or get rid of completely. Any advice? I might end up taking him to the vet after tax season. Maybe he needs some sort of medication. I've been wondering if Feliway might do anything for this situation?
Louie (black), Hunter (tabico)
1) Aggression? when he wants to be petted, he'll walk under your hand and headbutt you and pretty much "pet himself" against you. He can get pushy. I don't know if he gets overstimulated or what because sometimes he'll suddenly flip out and bite me really hard. Only me, though. Not my SO, not my parents when we lived at home. I thought I was overstimulating him, so I would restrict my petting to certain areas, or taper off, or stop all together. Everything I do, including just ignoring him, results in me getting bit. He also does this when he's begging for food and I ignore him. I'll walk by, and he'll attack my foot.
Is he trying to show me who's boss? He doesn't do this to anyone else, so I'm wondering if it has something to do with me being the only female in the house? When I lived at home, he slept with me every night in bed, and even sleeps with me/us in bed now once in a while- so I don't think he hates me or anything.
2) Constantly meowing and wanting to eat. the meowing. I posted about this several months ago and haven't made much progress. We have one cat who, after getting fixed, gained weight. His coat has been dull lately, so we decided to put them on a low-carb wet food diet and limit the dry food. They eat at 7-8AM and 7-8PM every night. Louie is fit and lean, whereas Hunter is chunky. But Louie eats WAY more than Hunter. He's begging for food 2 hours after he's been fed. I don't understand it. I keep a squirt bottle next to me in bed because SO and I both work nights and he keeps us up meowing and meowing. We live in an apartment and if I knew he wouldn't tear the carpet to shreds, I'd lock him out of the bedroom.
I think him being bored and wanting to play might play a factor in this. Admittedly we haven't been setting aside enough time to play with them after work the last few months. So I'm going to start this up again and see if it makes a difference.
He's not a bad cat, he's just got some bad behaviours I'd like to lessen or get rid of completely. Any advice? I might end up taking him to the vet after tax season. Maybe he needs some sort of medication. I've been wondering if Feliway might do anything for this situation?
Louie (black), Hunter (tabico)
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