When we were kids, we only went out to dinner on very special occasions. There were times on a Saturday morning, if Mom was in town for something, she might bring hoagies home for Saturday lunch, but that was rare. They just didn't have the money for restaurants or take-out that often. Mom cooked for many of our birthdays, too, but sometimes she would ask us if there was anything we really wanted for our birthday meal. And Mom usually did make a cake for us. Dad did make ice cream often during the winter, using the snow to pack around the ice cream container. We ate homemade ice cream more so than store bought, usually vanilla ice cream and we would add chocolate syrup. Sometimes she made peach or peanut butter, but Dad was a vanilla ice cream man, so that's what Mom made.
One night, Dad took us to a local steakhouse. We thought it was wonderful....we had never gone there before. That might have been for my birthday as a big surprise.
I remember that I never, ever had a slice of pizza until I married Rick. And even then, it was a homemade pizza that my MIL had made. Man, pizza was good stuff!
Mom always said that Dad would never eat pizza. Never. Until one night, Rick and I stopped up at their house and we happened to have a large pizza with us. We brought it into the house. Dad looked at it, he looked at me, and he took a slice. And then he came back for two more slices. Mom was shocked. She always said that Dad would eat my cooking more so than hers. He loved to come down to our house for dinner. There were some things that he couldn't eat....he couldn't handle cooked onions (but oh! he loved raw onion sandwiches!). And I always made it a point to have sliced and salted raw onions on a small plate in front of his plate at the table. He loved them. He rarely ate cooked corn. They always came to our house for Easter dinner; the first time I made a stuffed ham (it was stuffed with cornbread), he thought that was amazing.
He was very interested...Mom said if she'd had made it, Dad would have never touched it. But that was my Dad.
When our son was small, we ate in restaurants more often than our parents did. But even then, I cooked a lot. Even back then, going to McD's was a huge event for us because we just didn't do it that often. And for our son's birthdays, while I usually would order a bakery birthday cake, I cooked his birthday dinner. He would tell me what he wanted and I made it. When it came time for my birthday, I did it for Rick, too. Mom still would make my birthday dinner and we all went there. Eventually, we got to where we would go to a restaurant for birthday dinners and such. But really not that often.
Were your parents fond of restaurants or did your mother cook most of the time?
One night, Dad took us to a local steakhouse. We thought it was wonderful....we had never gone there before. That might have been for my birthday as a big surprise.
I remember that I never, ever had a slice of pizza until I married Rick. And even then, it was a homemade pizza that my MIL had made. Man, pizza was good stuff!
When our son was small, we ate in restaurants more often than our parents did. But even then, I cooked a lot. Even back then, going to McD's was a huge event for us because we just didn't do it that often. And for our son's birthdays, while I usually would order a bakery birthday cake, I cooked his birthday dinner. He would tell me what he wanted and I made it. When it came time for my birthday, I did it for Rick, too. Mom still would make my birthday dinner and we all went there. Eventually, we got to where we would go to a restaurant for birthday dinners and such. But really not that often.
Were your parents fond of restaurants or did your mother cook most of the time?
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