The one positive thing I can say right now is that everyone is healthy and present, may it continue for a long time!
I'm so sorry for your loss.I stopped buying soda. Not really a decision I just stopped liking it(???) So my health improving is positive! Found a few free classes for son. I should have done it a while ago but still out of it from husband passing away and trying to keep up with life. I think it will be a great experience for us both.
Kudos, Laura; I hope it goes well for you.
Jenny, I'm glad Mia is eating!
MickNsnicks2mom, that's so neat about the kittens...congrats!
Betsy, wonderful about the insurance discounts!
Barbara, that was so nice of your friends to do that for you.
This didn't just happen during the past 24 hours, but it's kind of cool and I want to share.
Rick's sister's husband (they've been married for about 40 years now) was an alcoholic, now long-time recovering. We never had much to do with them, largely because we always felt that he didn't like us, thought he thought he was better than us, etc. He simply wasn't in a good place for quite a while. And even after he quit drinking, we just didn't do much with them. He and I have talked about it and he admits that it took him a long time to get his head on straight.
Well, when Rick's dad became so ill and he eventually passed away back in May, my BIL and I started texting back and forth. It was nice to be able to talk about things with somebody else who was (kind of) on the outside looking in, if that makes any sense. He is a SIL, I'm a DIL, and while we know we are a close part of the family, a lot of what was going on was really not our business. The whole power-of-attorney thing, the upcoming sale of the house, things like that. We're not a part of that, nor do we wish to be. Anyway, he's a pretty neat guy. He loves to smoke meat, he loves to bake, he loves to cook. We are constantly sharing recipes, comparing recipes, asking/answering questions. He's the one who got me into smoking; in fact, he gave me my first smoker. We've made sauerkraut together, we bake together. He'll text me with bread questions; I'll text him about doing something in the smoker. He loves gardening, too, and he and Rick have been constantly talking about what 2016 will bring in the way of our veggie gardens. He's really a very interesting man in his own way. The four of us have been getting together for dinners and doing things. We've been together more often during the last part of the year than we ever did the whole time Rick's sister has been married.
Yesterday, he had texted to wish us a Happy New Year. Well, I had a question about something I had read in Mother Earth News (love that magazine, BTW). So he called me. We were chatting and I told him that one of the nicest things that happened to me personally in 2015 was getting to know him. Not just as my SIL's husband, but as a friend. I've enjoyed texting with him and I've enjoyed baking with him. And I wanted to thank him for being there during all this stuff with Rick's parents. I've enjoyed getting to know him, after all these years.
Things got a little quiet. And then he said that that was probably the nicest thing anybody has ever said to him. But I meant every word. It's nice having him as a friend as well as my BIL. (My SIL called me later and thanked me; she said that meant the world to him.)
So that's something that I think is positive for all of us in the long run.
Thanks! I really did mean every word. Took him a little off-guard, I think, but that was OK, too.Sorry never meant to quote entire post but anything that brings families in laws or NOT a bit less stress and closer together is a Great thing. I would say a fantastic great beginning to a New Year