So I took my cat to the vet because I thought he had an abscess. He was having trouble eating, and then his cheek started to swell, then the day before his appointment, the lump on his cheek peeled off of his face. He was left with a 1" x 2" gaping oval hole on his face. You can see the muscle and tissue through the hole. All the skin from that area is gone, and where it is cannot be wrapped to keep it from bleeding. All three vets said it MIGHT be an abscess, but there's no distinct drainage hole where the fluid should be draining from, so it doesn't look quite like an abscess. He's been on antibiotics and a nutritional supplement (from the vet) for about 5 days now. He can barely eat anything. He can only "eat" liquids, like tuna juice and milk. Won't drink kitten milk. Only regular milk. I tried pate cat food, watered down, but he's scared of it because every time he gets a TINY lump of actual food, he freaks out. So he won't even eat that anymore. His vet said I can get "extensive testing" for him, but it will be about $400+. And we have 4 children. So anyone that has kids (that lives paycheck to paycheck) understands why $400+ is a BIG deal. I need some advice!!! Please help!!!