foster cat still hiding under bed

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Tei is a 13 yr old neutered male Siamese, his human companion (who has been home ill for the last 10 yrs) went into the hospital 6 weeks ago for surgery, a week later she went into hospice, that day her beloved parrot of 30 yrs died. This left Pei completely alone in the house for the last 5 weeks, except for a short daily visit when the woman's children drop in to refill the kibble, change the water and empty the litter. The family has been trying to find another 'forever' home for Tei and finally decided a foster situation is necessary while they continue to look for a home.

Yesterday morning one of the woman's daughters brought Tei to my place, the minute she put the basket on the floor he dashed through my bedroom door and under the bed. I never had the chance to pet him, for us to meet each other. I placed the litter box, his food and water plus toys, etc. in the room with him and and closed the door. Throughout the day and evening periodically I went in to check on him still under the bed.  

He does talk to me when I go in to say hello and get down on the floor so he can see me. I've made no move to touch him.  By the time I went to bed he still had not used the litter box, nor had he had anything to eat. That was still the case this morning AND unfortunately is still the case this evening. 

It's now going on 48 hrs. I've been thinking that when he needs water he'll make sure to have a drink, same with food and using the litter. However, my concern is that he's so traumatized that he won't take care of himself or am I projecting and humanizing him? If I do need to do something please tell me what I need to do.

Thank you in advance, as does Tei.  
 

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This is all normal behavior. It will take a few more days before he even comes out from under the bed while you are awake. I'd Keep the litterbox close to the bed and under if possible the same with food but on the opposite side under the bed. He will probably come out when you are asleep and look around. I assume he was friendly to his owner so I don't think its that he's afraid of humans just this frightening new situation he finds himself in.
 

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Tei is a 13 yr old neutered male Siamese, his human companion (who has been home ill for the last 10 yrs) went into the hospital 6 weeks ago for surgery, a week later she went into hospice, that day her beloved parrot of 30 yrs died. This left Pei completely alone in the house for the last 5 weeks, except for a short daily visit when the woman's children drop in to refill the kibble, change the water and empty the litter. The family has been trying to find another 'forever' home for Tei and finally decided a foster situation is necessary while they continue to look for a home.

Yesterday morning one of the woman's daughters brought Tei to my place, the minute she put the basket on the floor he dashed through my bedroom door and under the bed. I never had the chance to pet him, for us to meet each other. I placed the litter box, his food and water plus toys, etc. in the room with him and and closed the door. Throughout the day and evening periodically I went in to check on him still under the bed.  

He does talk to me when I go in to say hello and get down on the floor so he can see me. I've made no move to touch him.  By the time I went to bed he still had not used the litter box, nor had he had anything to eat. That was still the case this morning AND unfortunately is still the case this evening. 

It's now going on 48 hrs. I've been thinking that when he needs water he'll make sure to have a drink, same with food and using the litter. However, my concern is that he's so traumatized that he won't take care of himself or am I projecting and humanizing him? If I do need to do something please tell me what I need to do.

Thank you in advance, as does Tei.  
I had a similar situation when I took in some cats after a friend passed away. One of them ran, and hid under a couch.  I thought kitty wasn't eating anything and was pretty worried, but then I put some treats down where she'd have to move a little bit to get to them and the next morning they were gone, so I knew she was eating something.  She didn't come out until the third day.

It is important that Tei eats something.  I don't know what you're putting down for her, but perhaps try something different--tuna, or dry treats or something that might tempt her more than her regular food.
 
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It's now going on 48 hrs. I've been thinking that when he needs water he'll make sure to have a drink, same with food and using the litter. However, my concern is that he's so traumatized that he won't take care of himself or am I projecting and humanizing him? If I do need to do something please tell me what I need to do.
While it's normal for cats to hide and be all scared in a new environment, 48 hours is approaching the "danger zone". Tei must have something to eat soon.
  • As betsygee said, tuna water, dry bonito flakes, anything. Put down a few of those stuffs as close as you can under the bed and walk away. Check periodically.
  • Try plugging Feliway diffusers in the room. Some cats respond to its calming effect.
  • Put on soft classical music on a radio or player.
By tomorrow morning, if he still hasn't touched his food or litter box, get in touch with your vet as soon as possible. I would consider it an emergency.
 
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