Quick history, my resident cat, Max is about 5 years old, male, and I brought him home as a kitten and I already had a female cat. She didn't like him at first and hissed at him a few times but it didn't take long for them to become close friends. Fast forward to January 2014, my original female kitty died of kindney failure, she was 11 and Max became the only cat of the house until about 3 weeks ago we got a female kitten. I thought he would be happy to have a companion again but he is NOT. I knew it would take time for him to get used to her, but he still hisses at her and not quite growls, but "angrily meows" at her and avoids her like the plague. He is overall very grumpy now and always looks mad. He also has NO tolerance for my kids anymore, (where he used to be great and they could carry him around and pet him all the time) if they try to pet him he does his very angry meow and sometimes hisses and swats at them. He sounds so mad I'm worried the way he acts he's going to lash out (trying to avoid the word attack, but..) and might seriously scratch them and maybe even bite them. I feel bad he's so cranky now and I was just hoping for some advice/opinions? Thank you!