My cat is distressed by this kitten to the max! How to I make her happy again?

tessafolkvangr

TCS Member
Thread starter
Kitten
Joined
Jul 22, 2014
Messages
2
Purraise
1
We recently got a kitten, female. However, one of our other females has begun acting very oddly. All females are not spayed.
To begin, we brought the kitten (Skadi) home and intended to give her some confinement to one room, but she is not used to being alone and started wailing for hours on end until we let her out (neighbor complained). 
One of our females (Freya) allows the kitten to eat with her, or roll around near her with minor hissing, they even touch noses and smell each other curiously now and then.
The other female (Erza) has started hissing at Freya (They are best friends?), and even us. Often making a deep grumbling growl sound if we touch her. She started hissing at us as well. We try our best to separate the kitten and Erza, but they will walk by each other and the cycle begins anew. It's been two days so far, and last night Erza vomited followed by accidentally pooping on our bed (Middening?), it seemed non intentional since it was a liquid. I worry for Erza, since she will not allow us near her but we cannot give this kitten away. 
After I bathed her from her incident, I held her close and she slept there without moving for a few hours. Whenever I shuffled a little bit to re-situate she started growling. I don't know how to approach this issue, it seems like she's threatened and also jealous. Even with the kitten in another room with the door closed, Erza continues to hide and growl, only now and then to accept pats and purr (very short lived).

Freya and Erza just hit one year of age, the kitten is 4 months old and only wants to play. 

This is a very serious issue to me, as we are often told and notice the bond between Erza and Freya is amazing - I don't want them to lose that love they had for one another before. I've introduced around 7-8 cats to a new kitten time and time again in my parents place before having cats of my own. This is a first I've ever seen this reaction!
 

flowerdew

TCS Member
Adult Cat
Joined
Jul 22, 2014
Messages
108
Purraise
25
I'm so sorry that your new kitten has been so stressful for Erza (I love all their names, by the way!)

I don't have much good advice for how to help your cats get along with each other, but your description of Erza's behavior worries me a bit. Have you taken her to the vet to make sure she's not ill? The loose stools, the growling when touched, her heavy sleeping and upset when you shifted her could all be signs of physical discomfort. Hopefully your vet can rule out (or treat) any possible illness.
 
  • Thread Starter Thread Starter
  • #3

tessafolkvangr

TCS Member
Thread starter
Kitten
Joined
Jul 22, 2014
Messages
2
Purraise
1
Thanks for the reply! We took Erza to the vet. She was just middening and being a grumpy face. :) she was jealous of Freya liking Skadi more, so we put both Erza and Freya in a room with toys and catnip to reignite their relationship. Now all three are playing, licking and talking to eachother! :)
 
Top