My pal Morbo

bel138

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I am relatively new, posting for the first time just a week ago. But everything happened so fast. Four years ago my husband and I adopted a beautiful Norwegian Forest cat from the Humane Society. We could not understand why anyone had surrendered such a wonderful animal.

Morbo was quite the character. My husband traveled for work frequently, and Morbo was my constant companion. He would sleep on the couch behind my head and share a pillow with me at night. He loved food, and would purr happily while eating. He was a "carb lover" as our vet said, and would try to steal pretzels when we weren't looking. He drank out of our water glasses if you didn't pay attention. And if he wasn't fed promptly by 5am, he would lick my arm until I got out of bed. Morbo was our "defender of the realm" growling warnings at feral cats that approached our windows, but too much of a scaredy cat to exit the open front door. We have a 2 year old, and he was the most gentle cat with him. I never had to worry about my son around him.

Three weeks ago he began to drool. Excessively. Several visits to the vet, blood work, and a tooth cleaning later, we had no answers. He began to lose weight. He could not chew. His tongue hung out the side of his mouth, and his jaw began to quiver. We fed him food and water with a syringe three times per day and bathed him every other day because the drooling was so bad. We took him to a neurologist, who diagnosed him with a brainstem tumor.

The neurologist said it's so rare that he's only seen a couple. He wanted pictures and videos so others could learn. The location made the tumor inoperable. And chemo was not an option. It would be a rapid decline. He had already lost 5lbs. He was refusing his syringe feeds.

We made the decision to end his suffering. The one thing he really loved in life was to eat. He could not care less about toys, or his bed, or anything else. So I made a nice pile of food in an easy to eat shape. He shoved his whole face in there and tried his best.

Even though I know it was best for him, I still feel horribly guilty. He purred even as they inserted the IV. And I feel like I betrayed him by asking someone to take him. He went peacefully. He is no longer suffering. And I miss him terribly.
 
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It's so very, very hard to lose such a gorgeous companion.

But please try to let go of any guilt.. you saved him pain and gave him a wonderful life.

He will know that.


 
 
  
 
 
 
 

     Rest in Peace

     Beautiful Morbo


 
 
  
 
 
 
 
 
 

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I'm so sorry for your loss, @bel138. Morbo fell into the right hands four years ago. 
  You gave him a wonderful, comfortable, loving home and took such good care of him.

Making this decision is so difficult, but it is the last thing we can do to show them our unconditional love. It's better to make the decision sooner than too late. You wouldn't have wanted the last moments of Morbo to be of suffering and pain.

Rest in peace, Morbo. 
 
 
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sorry to hear this, maybe somehow his death will help other cats live through this in the future. rip morbo.
 

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I'm very sorry for your loss. Second-guessing yourself is natural, but you did what was best for him, sparing him pain and perhaps fear out of love for him.

RIP, Morbo. :rbheart:
 

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Do not feel guilty. He purred to you to say bye. Your heart is heavy and broken now, but carry on with his love to you will heal better. RIP Morbo
 

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Don't feel guilty about putting him out of his misery. You did what was best for him.

Morbo will never be forgotten. 
 

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These feelings are normal when you are grieving, but you did the right thing. You took on his pain as your own and now you will suffer, but he is pain free and at peace. It would have been different if there would have been a chance of him getting better, but you know from the experts that that was not to be.Please try to focus on the wonderful love you two shared, and the past experiences you had with that loving boy and not dwell on his passing. He would not want you to be so sad. Let us comfort you and share your pain, we do know that the agony is almost unbearable in the beginning. Please take care of yourself and let time help you to heal that hole in your heart. RIP beautiful Morbo!
 
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