I would try not to worry too much about her. I know when I have had females spayed they can seem really confused as they recover. Especially if they are a little older and have been through a couple or more "seasons". And, since the weather is nice now, a time when she would be getting pregnant; she might even be out looking for a home for she and her " about to come kittens". So, I wouldn't worry too much. And, especially if she knows food is there, she will come back when she is hungry.
I know it is unbearable worrying about them when they decide to disappear for a few days. I have learned over time though that a wanderer will usually be gone for three days, or multiples of that. i.e. six days, nine days. So, try to not be too worried until you pass that first three days. And, if you do have a cat that wanders a lot, I think its important to have a place in your calendar to keep track of when you first notice the disappearance.
And, in my experience, the cats will use the shelters and usually have no trouble finding them. Some of mine in the colony of 50+, use a shelter without fail in the winter, but don't use a shelter in the spring or summer.
At some point, you will know what works for her. Sometimes, too, another cat will spray a shelter, so the original cat won't go back into it. I usually keep the shelters separated one from one another and have a few more than there are cats, just in case. Sometimes one cat will decide it doesn't want to sleep near another one just because.....
I will keep my fingers crossed that the female will return.
Super huge gold stars for getting her spayed and all the work that goes into that. I think those of us who do this work should get Oscars or something for each one we get fixed. The "other world" out there (the one where no one even thinks about Feral Cats) has absolutely no idea of how much work goes into just one trap and neuter. But, I do, so many thanks to you.
Sally
I know it is unbearable worrying about them when they decide to disappear for a few days. I have learned over time though that a wanderer will usually be gone for three days, or multiples of that. i.e. six days, nine days. So, try to not be too worried until you pass that first three days. And, if you do have a cat that wanders a lot, I think its important to have a place in your calendar to keep track of when you first notice the disappearance.
And, in my experience, the cats will use the shelters and usually have no trouble finding them. Some of mine in the colony of 50+, use a shelter without fail in the winter, but don't use a shelter in the spring or summer.
At some point, you will know what works for her. Sometimes, too, another cat will spray a shelter, so the original cat won't go back into it. I usually keep the shelters separated one from one another and have a few more than there are cats, just in case. Sometimes one cat will decide it doesn't want to sleep near another one just because.....
I will keep my fingers crossed that the female will return.
Super huge gold stars for getting her spayed and all the work that goes into that. I think those of us who do this work should get Oscars or something for each one we get fixed. The "other world" out there (the one where no one even thinks about Feral Cats) has absolutely no idea of how much work goes into just one trap and neuter. But, I do, so many thanks to you.
Sally