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My cat is now about 7 months old. He is a sweet boy, very lovey and attention-seeking, but he has formed a habit that is nothing short of a deal-breaker in terms of being able to stay in my home (I don't know if I would really get rid of him, but I am at the end of my rope). He has decided that the door to my bedroom MUST remain open for him at all times. It doesn't matter to him which side of the door he is on or which side I am on--all that matters is the door be open the second he wants it to be. If the door is closed, the second he decides he wants to even see the other side of the door, he scratches the carpet under and near the door. The carpet is now entirely ruined in my doorway, scratched down to wood. If he whines to be in the living room and I am stupid or frustrated enough to give in, he will be back, whining and scratching, two minutes later. If I open the door at this point, he runs away, and when I go back to what I was doing he'll come back again (I don't honestly know if he thinks this is a game - I don't find it fun, so I try not to play. Of course if I DON'T open the door, the scratching and meowing seems to have no end). I can and do keep the door open sometimes, but I have roommates and my room doubles as my office, so having the door open often enough for kitty's taste just isn't reasonable. I've tried multiple scratching posts and pads, but they don't matter because the scratching for him isn't the point - the door being open is the point. It's gotten to a point where EVERY night when I just want to relax a bit before bed (and would be happy to play with him or let him curl up in my lap) he gets hell-bent on destroying my sanity with hours of non-stop whining and claws-on-carpet (which is getting as irritating to hear as nails on a chalkboard at this point)
I have used special double-sided tape and I've tried blocking the area around the door, but he just scratches the carpet at the closest spot he can reach. He has been squirted with water, yelled at, had loud cans of change shaken - anything I can think of to get through to him that this isn't okay and to deter him from the behavior, but nothing is working. I spend lots of time playing with him, cuddling with him, etc, and if he wants more attention he knows he can get petted (and I might pull out the laser pen) just by coming over to me and he does that plenty. This is clearly about him just wanting to "roam" the apartment and convincing him to accept a reality where what he wants just isn't practical 24/7.
Interestingly, while he is somewhat interested in going outside, he doesn't freak out trying to leave the apartment, this is a purely inside-door problem.
I don't want my relationship with my cat to become defined by this behavior, but it seems the more my energy has to be focused on this the less I enjoy him being around at all - all I hear in my head is the sound of my deposits being shredded. In the last 2 1/2 years I have had roommates with a total of 3 cats move in and out of here without any damage at all, but now the biggest and most glaring damage done in the whole apartment is from this cat in the last few months.
Any advice from anyone with a carpet-shredder of their own that has managed to curb this behavior? I've had cats my whole life and maybe I've been lucky but this is a totally new problem for me.
I have used special double-sided tape and I've tried blocking the area around the door, but he just scratches the carpet at the closest spot he can reach. He has been squirted with water, yelled at, had loud cans of change shaken - anything I can think of to get through to him that this isn't okay and to deter him from the behavior, but nothing is working. I spend lots of time playing with him, cuddling with him, etc, and if he wants more attention he knows he can get petted (and I might pull out the laser pen) just by coming over to me and he does that plenty. This is clearly about him just wanting to "roam" the apartment and convincing him to accept a reality where what he wants just isn't practical 24/7.
Interestingly, while he is somewhat interested in going outside, he doesn't freak out trying to leave the apartment, this is a purely inside-door problem.
I don't want my relationship with my cat to become defined by this behavior, but it seems the more my energy has to be focused on this the less I enjoy him being around at all - all I hear in my head is the sound of my deposits being shredded. In the last 2 1/2 years I have had roommates with a total of 3 cats move in and out of here without any damage at all, but now the biggest and most glaring damage done in the whole apartment is from this cat in the last few months.
Any advice from anyone with a carpet-shredder of their own that has managed to curb this behavior? I've had cats my whole life and maybe I've been lucky but this is a totally new problem for me.