While almost everything is going well, there are a few things Im a tad concerned about and wonder if it will get better. Im taking turns with the cats on who gets to roam the house and who stays penned up in the computer room. It seems to be going ok this way. Last night Jayce stayed in it overnight and was in the same place I left him
He really seems to be very very timid. Hes still scared, so we're going slow on learning the rest of the house, but hes jumpy and freaks out about a lot of little things. He wasnt quite this way at the shelter, so maybe Im just expecting too much too soon?
I just dont want my 3 year old scaring him. Shes very respectful and gentle and treats them well, but her antics (typical of a happy 3 year old) will freak him out. Is this something that will take time or is it likely to be part of his personality? I just dont want him to be scared of her, as thats not fair to either one of them. I did ask at the shelter if they thought it would be an ok fit and 2 of the workers there said they thought he would be fine.
The second problem, is that all the cats seem to stalk the crack under the door where they can see each other and reach their paws under. Its about 2 inches of space which I thought would be good to help them smell each other out and all. But they swipe paws at each other and there has been a little bit of hissing. Is that normal too? Should I keep them seperated like this for about a week? What indicators tell you when its an ok to start meeting face to face? Ive done the vanilla thing and will keep it up for a while, and also have their food bowls on opposite sides of the door.
I just dont want my 3 year old scaring him. Shes very respectful and gentle and treats them well, but her antics (typical of a happy 3 year old) will freak him out. Is this something that will take time or is it likely to be part of his personality? I just dont want him to be scared of her, as thats not fair to either one of them. I did ask at the shelter if they thought it would be an ok fit and 2 of the workers there said they thought he would be fine.
The second problem, is that all the cats seem to stalk the crack under the door where they can see each other and reach their paws under. Its about 2 inches of space which I thought would be good to help them smell each other out and all. But they swipe paws at each other and there has been a little bit of hissing. Is that normal too? Should I keep them seperated like this for about a week? What indicators tell you when its an ok to start meeting face to face? Ive done the vanilla thing and will keep it up for a while, and also have their food bowls on opposite sides of the door.