A person in my family (married with a relative of mine) just lost her oldest child few weeks ago. It was either a suicide or an accidental overdose.. The 'kid' was 20 years old. Only couple days before it happened he had told her mother how his dad's red tabby cat was his only friend in this world (the mom and dad are separated, mom is now newly married).
Needless to say his mother is absolutely devastated, she visits his son's grave 2-3 times per day. We're not religious people, the whole country is quite non-religious, but when stuff like that happens, of course it makes people seek for comfort. She had been asking her son to give her a sign that he is ok and happy now.
Well, few days ago her youngest son came home and said that this little kitten had followed him home. It was a red tabby who I was told looked exactly like the one the dead son had been talking about. The mother of course though that this is a sign from his son and is eagerly keeping the kitten. Sounds beautiful, doesn't it?
It isn't. They have a cat already. I think he's 3 or 4 years old, unneutered and in horrible condition. He doesn't even have a litterbox, he's pretty much 'outdoor only' cat. Ears nearly completely missing due to fighting, saw vet apparently only once in his life last summer when he had poisoning of some kind... Let's just say the cat is not cared for properly to put it short. Adding another cat when you can't even care for one..?
Another thing.. I'm fairly sure the kitten actually belongs to someone and is just lost. It was an area where people live, not in the middle of nowhere, where the kitten had showed up. He's very young, 8-10 weeks is my estimate after seeing 2 bad quality photos, but my sister saw the kitten and mentioned that she also thinks he clearly belongs to someone. The kitten had clearly been around people and handled a lot. The mother had of course also thought that there's a strong possibility that the kitten belongs to someone and might just be lost. She admitted that even if she saw a poster/missing note in a news paper, she wouldn't return the kitten. Even microchipping had crossed her mind when my sister politely mentioned that it would be wise to neuter the kitten if they plan on keeping him.
The area where the kitten appeared has mostly families with kids living in there, so he could belong to a child. I live in a different city so I can't keep an eye on possible 'missing' posters etc. I feel bad but don't know what to do, this doesn't seem right to me.
Needless to say his mother is absolutely devastated, she visits his son's grave 2-3 times per day. We're not religious people, the whole country is quite non-religious, but when stuff like that happens, of course it makes people seek for comfort. She had been asking her son to give her a sign that he is ok and happy now.
Well, few days ago her youngest son came home and said that this little kitten had followed him home. It was a red tabby who I was told looked exactly like the one the dead son had been talking about. The mother of course though that this is a sign from his son and is eagerly keeping the kitten. Sounds beautiful, doesn't it?
It isn't. They have a cat already. I think he's 3 or 4 years old, unneutered and in horrible condition. He doesn't even have a litterbox, he's pretty much 'outdoor only' cat. Ears nearly completely missing due to fighting, saw vet apparently only once in his life last summer when he had poisoning of some kind... Let's just say the cat is not cared for properly to put it short. Adding another cat when you can't even care for one..?
Another thing.. I'm fairly sure the kitten actually belongs to someone and is just lost. It was an area where people live, not in the middle of nowhere, where the kitten had showed up. He's very young, 8-10 weeks is my estimate after seeing 2 bad quality photos, but my sister saw the kitten and mentioned that she also thinks he clearly belongs to someone. The kitten had clearly been around people and handled a lot. The mother had of course also thought that there's a strong possibility that the kitten belongs to someone and might just be lost. She admitted that even if she saw a poster/missing note in a news paper, she wouldn't return the kitten. Even microchipping had crossed her mind when my sister politely mentioned that it would be wise to neuter the kitten if they plan on keeping him.
The area where the kitten appeared has mostly families with kids living in there, so he could belong to a child. I live in a different city so I can't keep an eye on possible 'missing' posters etc. I feel bad but don't know what to do, this doesn't seem right to me.