Originally Posted by Carolina
Oh honey, I am so very sorry...
One thing I learned in life is that we are better off alone than in bad company... Trust me when I say.... WAY better off, and you will be alright
You need no one to make yourself happy hun, just you, and you only. Always always remember that no matter what, you will always have yourself, the most AMAZING, and the most important person to count on. Never forget that
You have Jakie too... and us
Do you really want this other woman in your life? Really? I'm glad that your are financially self-sufficient and that you haven't moved in together - that's a real advantage.
I heard someplace that men like to hunt - now that you are rejecting him, it's likely that he'll try even harder to win you back - but - back for what (?) is a question.
It's nice he's done wonderful things for you - at least you have some good memories - unless he did those wonderful things out of feelings of guilt, that is.
For your sake - find the man that's out there - waiting to love you as you deserve.
I'm so sorry to be so plain spoken, because I know you're in such pain and agony. The sooner you decide, the quicker your healing will come.
I hope the best for you.