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post #1 of 59
Thread Starter 
My Dad turned 79 last year. This is remarkable, as he has had juvenile onset (Type 1) diabetes since the age of 9. That was not long after the discovery of insulin. They've learned quite a bit about the disease since then, but at the time, he was given 15 years to live. All of his (Type 1) diabetic friends were gone decades ago.

He lived a healthy life, adhered to a strict diet, and was very conscientious about exercise.

Of course, even with those measures, diabetes takes its toll. But my superhuman dad has survived quintuple bypass surgery, the need for a pacemaker, rheumatoid arthritis, and he's been having problems with cataracts and glaucoma. He's always had to be very careful about wounds, and has always worn "hard sided" slippers to avoid problems with his feet.

He hasn't been able to walk well because of the RA for several years. Two weeks ago, something changed. He couldn't go forward. He was walking in place. His short term memory has been deteriorating, and this same day he seemed extremely confused and since then often speaks nonsense. It was determined he has not had a stroke.

My mom was convinced he (for him) was running a low-grade fever, and as his primary doc was out of town, they took him to what they called a "Doc-in-the-box." I guess it's a general clinic? Anyway, he's had a bad cough so they took X-rays and found nothing. They sent him home.

When we talked to them, he sounded terrible, and his cough was painful to hear. They wrote it off as "a seasonal thing," though the only thing we know he's allergic to is pineapple. He doesn't have seasonal allergies.

His fever spiked to 104 yesterday, and off they went to the emergency room. He has pneumonia. I don't have much information other than from my sister, who said "it's serious," and his blood sugar is completely out of control in her message. I haven't been able to get a hold of anyone, and she didn't tell me what hospital he's in!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

But if you could send a few of those wonderful TCS vibes to my Dad, I'd really appreciate it. I'm very worried!
post #2 of 59
Oh how scary

I'm sending your Dad lots of good well soon vibes

Please keep us updated
post #3 of 59
Oh Laurie, troubles never come singly, do they? Here's hoping for a full recovery for your Dad as soon as possible. It must be very scary.
post #4 of 59
What a wonderfully long life your dad has enjoyed! Praying for him to completely recover from this and enjoy many more years with you and your family.
post #5 of 59
A big for you hun! You and your Dad are very much in my thoughts!
post #6 of 59
It's scary when things just happen like this out of nowhere, and even scarier when you're not getting information! I hope you find out more soon.

Sending lots of get well vibes for your dad!!
post #7 of 59
I'm so sorry to hear about your Dad, Laurie. Many vibes that he recovers well from thisIt's good that they have finally spotted what is wrong (even if it took way too long) and that he is gettng treatment.
post #8 of 59
Your dad is in my prayers.
post #9 of 59
Hope your dad is able to pull through the pneumonia safely! He sounds like a survivor!
post #10 of 59
Am sending vibes for your Dad!
post #11 of 59
That reminds me a bit of what happened to my DH's step grandfather. Around Thanksgiving of '09 he got really sick and didn't know where he was, who anyone else was, sometimes not even who he was, and could barely speak (though strangely I could understand him when others had problems ). He has type 2 diabetes (controlled for years) and emphysema. They tested him for a stroke and several other things... then finally started doing further testing on minerals and vitamins. He had a severe B12 deficiency! Either just due to age and no longer absorbing it properly, or in part from diet (they eat less meat and he's picky, too) he wasn't getting enough.

It caused the onset of dementia in him - he may have eventually got it, but neurological damage didn't help matters. He does pretty well now, though he has some memory issues that he didn't have before.

This isn't to dismiss the pneumonia. But if they haven't done more testing, yell at the docs until they do! you could save his life.
post #12 of 59
and prayers for your dad, and for you. I hope you hear something soon.
post #13 of 59
Oh gosh, I hope he will be ok. As you may recall, my mother (age 85) ended up in the hospital in January with a ruptured appendix, then got pneumonia and ended up on a ventilator. 2 months later (just last week), she finally returned home. During that time, we called in a neurologist for a consult because there was several days when she didn't know who she was, where she was, what she was doing, etc. One day she'd be fine (brainwise), then the next she'd be totally out of it. It was extremely scary. And, naturally, the neuro guy had no answers, but at least now she is pretty much back to normal in that department.

that your Dad will come out of this AOK.
post #14 of 59
Thinking of your dad, Laurie, and keeping in my prayers.
post #15 of 59
Sending vibes to you and your dad, Laurie!
post #16 of 59
I hope your father feels better soon!
post #17 of 59
Laurie!!!! lots of for your dad!!
post #18 of 59
Lots of mega healthy coming for your Dad, Laurie. It must be so frustrating not knowing more information
post #19 of 59
Oh Laurie, my heart just goes out to your father -- I hope they can make up for lost time and get him back on track. Love and healing vibes to you and to him...
post #20 of 59
Geez, Laurie - I'm so sorry! As if you don't have enough to deal with..

Mega for your dad!
post #21 of 59
Sending you good vibes. My mom was hospitalized one week ago for pneumonia as a precaution -no temp though.

Hopefully they can bring his temp down and get his blood sugar under control.

Take care..............
post #22 of 59
Thread Starter 
Thank you all. Your vibes are helping already.

I finally got a hold of my mom. (She has a cell, but turns it on to make a call, then turns it off again. ).

My dad is NOT in intensive care. My sister's message freaked me out. But he's responding to the treatment for the pneumonia, and his fever is down to 101.

The problem is his blood sugar levels. They're all over the map. Anything over 240 and you run the risk of ketoacidosis - basically the risk of a coma. He can measure 120 (good) - then just a couple hours later he'll be at 400.

They won't release him until his blood sugar is more stable. My parents live in a condo in an active retirement community. When he returns, he won't be going home, he'll be going into the skilled nursing section (more like a traditional nursing home).

Strange Wings, thanks for that info. I'll get it to my mom, and I'm sure they'll check.
post #23 of 59
Why all at once do these things happen???!!! I am very sorry to hear about your Dad. He has beaten the odds his whole life long, and this will be no different. He sounds like a very strong man and has a great will to live. I sure hope you get more information on the hospital, etc. tonight, as I am sure you will. Mega for you dad and Mega for you Laurie
post #24 of 59
Vibes coming your way for your dad Laurie.
post #25 of 59
laurie. Sending tons of for your dad.
post #26 of 59
Happy to hear he's doing better, Maia and I are sending lots of and a !
post #27 of 59
I'm glad you were able to get a hold of someone.
Lots of good coming for your dad, Laurie.
post #28 of 59
More vibes coming your way Laurie! Please blood sugar - stabilize!!!!

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post #30 of 59
sorry to hear all this
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