So as some of you know...I am moving...a few towns over..closer to my work because I do not have a car and I take a bus...my schedule...is a 640 bus to get to work at 9. take 2 buses then walk a mile. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years... (he is a college professor if that paints any picture). we do not live together...he takes things very slow.. At one point he had desire to but not so much anymore. sometimes I feel we are just friends even though I do love him very much. I've lately been feeling like we should break up...I asked him if he will drive me to work either this thur or fri (40 min away) so I can cat sit and not have to leave at 5 in the morning...I know he will not be working at these hours. long story short he whined about commute & said no. I told him " this is where I will be living....how are we gonna be together when you get busy in the school year and you won't drive to Newport" and he just said nothing and nothing and more nothing...sigh....its like its this big lost distance thing for him....I have friends that wouldn't think twice or hardly even once without just coming to see me from that distance...I don't know...I only see him a couple times a week...and intimacy....ha! On the other hand...come to think of it all I can say is he is a nice guy in general....Idk....I feel like I am more willing to be helpful and want to do things with in the relationship....Should I go? Is it worth it? sorry for venting...not sure what advise I am looking for just opinions of that matter...I could tell you he washes his hands after petting the cats that might be a sign lol